Moving can be a huge adjustment, particularly for kids. As a parent, you want to ease this transition. has a few suggestions.
Let them know early
As soon as it’s decided, call a family meeting. Plan a sit-down dinner and lots of conversation. If you’re moving because of a new job, explain why you took it and how it will impact the entire family. Encourage the kids to express their feelings and concerns. If this is their first time moving, it could be particularly difficult because they’re leaving their family home.
Make the move a family event
If you plan the move as a family, and support one another throughout the process, it can bring your family closer together. Let your children know that you will be available to help them deal with any problems and concerns that arise. The stress of moving is greatest about two weeks before and after the move. It’s a hectic time, but sure to schedule some breaks during that time to ‘‘check in’’ with each other.
Emphasise the excitement of moving
Remind your kids that while the move may be a bit scary, it will also be adventurous and interesting. Talk about people from other countries who have moved to New Zealand. Encourage your children to make plans for the move. Have them make lists of tasks and projects to do. Some ideas include having a family garage sale for unnecessary housewares and outgrown clothes.
Have a ‘See You Soon’ party
One of the hardest things about moving is saying goodbye to friends. You could host a get-together and call it a ‘‘See You Soon’’ party. During the party, make sure everyone exchanges