It’s a snap to chat for teens

Ever wondered what your child is laughing at on their phone only to be told that they can’t show you because it has disappeared? So did Christine Elgersma. Here’s everything you need to know about Snapchat.

IF you have tweens or teens, you know about Snapchat. And if you can’t figure out how it works, you’re probably over 25.

One of the most popular social media apps out there, Snapchat gives kids and teens what they really want: a simple way to share everyday moments while simultaneously making them look awesome. And unlike Facebook and Twitter, which record and broadcast everything you do, Snapchat uses messages that are meant to disappear .

Like so many social media apps, Snapchat is a mixed bag, so it is a good idea to understand how it works, how your children use it and how much time they spend on it so you can make sure their experiences are positive.

In addition to letting you connect with and follow friends, Snapchat offers a lot more cool stuff: games, news and entertainment, quizzes and truly innovative photo and videoediting tools (so innovative, in fact, it is nearly impossible for grownups to figure them out — another reason children love it).

Something about snapping, sharing and then forgetting about life’s little moments has massive appeal for kids. And for the most part, that’s what they use Snapchat for.

The app has a lighthearted design, and its photo filters and effects tend towards rainbows and flower crowns.

But other features pose some risks: Snap Map lets friends see each other’s location on a map, which is not always safe; Snapstreaks requires users to exchange messages for as long as possible, which is a major timesuck; and Discover offers some ageinappropriate content. With your guidance on privacy, safety, social media pressure and marketing, though, Snapchat can be a fun way for teens to connect.

What is Snapchat?

Snapchat is a popular messaging app that lets users exchange pictures and videos (called snaps) that are meant to disappear after they are viewed. It is advertised as a ‘‘new type of camera’’ because the essential function is to take a picture or video, add filters, lenses or other effects and share them with friends.

How does Snapchat work?

All you need to sign up is your name, an email address and your birth date. On Snapchat, users go by a handle, and Snapchatters gravitate towards silly names. To add friends, you can upload your contacts or search for people you know. You can also automatically add someone by taking a picture of their ‘‘Snapcode’’, a special QR code unique to each user.

After that, things get a little confusing. On Snapchat, photos — not text — usually start the communication. To begin a conversation, you tap the big camera circle and take a snap. There are all sorts of photoediting tools (you have to experiment to figure out what they do) as well as filters to adorn your images. Once you customise your snap, you can send it to anyone in your friends list or add it to your story, which is a record of the day that your friends can view for 24 hours. Snapchat also offers group texting and group stories everyone in the group can contribute to.

How old do you have to be to use Snapchat?

According to the terms of service, users must be 13. You have to enter your birth date to set up an account, but there’s no age verification, so it’s easy for children under 13 to sign up.

Common Sense Media rates Snapchat as OK for teens 16 and up, mainly because of the exposure to ageinappropriate content and the marketing ploys, such as quizzes, that collect data.

Do messages really disappear on Snapchat?

It depends. If you set a time limit on a snap, it will disappear after it is viewed. However, recipients can take a screenshot of an image using their phones or a thirdparty screencapture app. A phone screencapture will notify the sender the image was captured. But thirdparty apps don’t trigger a notification. For these reasons, it is best teens understand that nothing done online is really temporary.

Before sending a sexy or embarrassing snap of themselves or someone else, it is important to remember that the picture could circulate at school by tomorrow morning.

What are Snapstreaks?

With a Snapstreaks, two users have snapped back and forth within a 24hour period for three days in a row. Once you’ve established a streak, special emojis and statistics display next to the streakers’ names to show you how long you’ve maintained a streak. Why do they matter? For one thing, they add to your overall Snapchat score (basically a number that reflects how much you use the app). For another, they can occasionally become the most important thing in a kid’s life.

Because of the intense bonds kids can form over social media, they can feel a Snapstreak is a measure of their friendship, and if they don’t keep it up they’ll let the other person down.

Teens have even been known to give friends access to their Snapchat accounts to keep a streak going if they can’t do it themselves (for example, if their phone gets taken away as a result of the teen being online too much). This can lead to feelings of pressure, anxiety and compulsion, so it’s good to know if your teen has streaks going to get a window into why that selfie might feel really important.

What’s Snap Map?

Snap Map displays your location on a map in real time. Only your