Our daughter wants to be a mechanic
I think you should separate the issues here. It’s a shock that your daughter has changed her plans without discussing them with you, her parents. It’s disappointing but now it’s done, you’d be better off accepting this and getting on with helping her make future good choices.
As a car mechanic, your daughter will have less trouble getting work than in many other career options. According to NZTA figures, there are more than four million registered vehicles in New Zealand today.
Electric cars are becoming a bigger part of our future and a good motor mechanic will always be in demand. She has expressed a particular interest in wiring and this is also an area of constantly growing demand.
Rather than focus on the negatives, like her work environment being cold and drafty, or the probability of her spending most of her day with grease-stained hands, you’d be better off supporting her and making the most out of this decision.
Is she going to use her boyfriend’s garage as the base for her apprenticeship? Do some research and seek some advice to find the best way for your daughter to complete her training. To become certified, it is usually a three- or four-year training programme.
As with many young people, her plans may evolve or change and she could end up going to university later, or training in a completely different field. Even if this all falls over, learning how to fix a car is a useful life skill for any of us.