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She Suspects I Am Cheating On Her

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IREALLY don’t understand the reason she usually overreacts, especially when a female greets me. I am 27, she is 25 and a graduate. We have been together for 16 months. But, she always assumed that I cheat on her. I have not cheated on her before. She said I should appreciate her by always asking if I was cheating, because that meant she cared. But, I am really pissed off with it. It seems she’s always trying to frame me up. And she always thinks I lie each time she confronts me. She would lie just to try and get me to confess to something I did not do or when there is really nothing to confess about. Is it possible for a mature girl of that age, and even a graduate, who I feel should be exposed, to act this way? Or, is it greed? — Anonymous

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