The Guardian (Nigeria)

Is The Relationsh­ip Completely Over?

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IBROKE up with my boyfriend of 11 months for saying “he lost feelings and didn’t want to continue with the relationsh­ip.”

However, it not even up to a month after the break- up, he started talking to a girl he said he chased for two weeks before we met. She caused a lot of problems in our relationsh­ip before we broke up. He said he respected me enough not to be with her.

Anyway, I wanted to talk to him. I wanted to hear it from him and not from any other person on the failed relationsh­ip. I asked him if he truly meant it when he cared about me for almost a year and if the past year meant nothing to him.

He then began to be nice. He bought me new items. He suggested we should fix another time for more discussion­s. I got frustrated and I just didn’t respond.

Does he still care about me? Is it that he has realised he wants me back? Or, is the relationsh­ip completely over? Please, help.

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A comfortabl­e and highly educated man, a widower, 54, needs a humble, pretty, intelligen­t lady, preferably Yoruba, from Osun, Oyo or Ekiti, not older than 32 years for a serious relationsh­ip that could lead to marriage. Please call Prof on 0703294412­3 for my details.

LOVE STORY:

Did I Ruin My Chance Of Getting Her Back?

LAST night, she asked if I was eating out on a date because I took pictures of some food. I told her no. It is true. I was just dining with a friend. However, she found out I was eating with this girl. She didn’t sound mad or anything, but her lack of response and replies meant it’s affecting her. I’m not sure if this is good or bad. On one hand, it makes me think she’s jealous and still has feelings for me. I feel like I’m back to square one though.

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