The Guardian (Nigeria)

Accessing Divine Assistance And Making Yourself Ready To Receive

“There will always be poor people in the land. Therefore I command you to be open handed toward your fellow Israelites who are poor and needy in your land,” Deuteronom­y 15: 11.

- By Stephen Wolemonwu • Venerable Stephen Wolemonwu is the Rector, Ibru Ecumenical Centre, Agbarha- Otor, Delta State ( 0803541381­2)

PEOPLE have regularly used the local slang: “This world no balance,” especially when expressing certain experience­s in life. The wild difference between the rich and the poor, the rich keep acquiring wealth and storing it for its 10th generation, while the poor is becoming very poor that his present is uncertain. In life help is inclusive.

No one is beyond helping. There will always be a time in everyone’s life when he or she would need some kind of help. It may be emotional, physical, spiritual, academical­s, social, or otherwise. Money, wealth, prosperity, fame, position, connection and experience are very important elements that facilitate help. I came across a book during my secondary school days that reads: “The rich also cry.” Help is not only needed by the downtrodde­n, but even the high and mighty; might at a certain time in life be in dare need of help. The irony of help is that sometimes what you have or who you are may not shade you from being in the need of help. This is so because the wealth of a billionair­e does not stop him from having medical challenges, neither does the poverty of the wretch excludes him from marital crises.

The story of King Jehoshapha­t in 2 Chronicles 20: 17- 27 is a great lesson in making ourselves ready to receiving help either from God or man.

17: "Ye shall not need to fight in this battle: set yourselves, stand ye still, and see the salvation of the Lord with you, O Judah and Jerusalem: fear not, nor be dismayed; to morrow go out against them: for the Lord will be with you. 18: And Jehoshapha­t bowed his head with his face to the ground: and all Judah and the inhabitant­s of Jerusalem fell before the Lord, worshippin­g the Lord. 19: And the Levites, of the children of the Kohathites, and of the children of the Korhites, stood up to praise the Lord God of Israel with a loud voice on high. 20: And they rose early in the morning, and went forth into the wilderness of Tekoa: and as they went forth, Jehoshapha­t stood and said, ' hear me, O Judah, and ye inhabitant­s of Jerusalem; believe in the Lord your God, so shall ye be establishe­d; believe his prophets, so shall ye prosper. 21: And when he had consulted with the people, he appointed singers unto the Lord, and that should praise the beauty of holiness, as they went out before the army, and to say, Praise the Lord; for his mercy endureth forever. 22: And when they began to sing and to praise, the Lord set ambushment­s against the children of Ammon, Moab, and mount Seir, which were come against Judah; and they were smitten. 23: For the children of Ammon and Moab stood up against the inhabitant­s of mount Seir, utterly to slay and destroy them: and when they had made an end of the inhabitant­s of Seir, every one helped to destroy another. 24: And when Judah came toward the watch tower in the wilderness, they looked unto the multitude, and, behold, they were dead bodies fallen to the earth, and none escaped. 25: And when Jehoshapha­t and his people came to take away the spoil of them, they found among them in abundance both riches with the dead bodies, and precious jewels, which they stripped off for themselves, more than they could carry away: and they were three days in gathering of the spoil, it was so much. 26: And on the fourth day they assembled themselves in the valley of Berachah; for there they blessed the Lord: therefore the name of the same place was called, The Valley of Berachah, unto this day. 27: Then they returned, every man of Judah and Jerusalem, and Jehoshapha­t in the forefront of them, to go again to Jerusalem with joy; for the Lord had made them to rejoice over their enemies.

Everyone at a time in life will need assistance. Sometimes the assistance may be physical or spiritual. In Romans 14: 7, the Apostle Paul said: “For none of us liveth to himself, and no man dieth to himself.” As we sojourn in this earthly pilgrimage, we all will be in need of one kind of help or the other.

• In the past, there must have been a time that we have been in need of something from someone.

• In the present, we may be in need of something from someone no matter how comfortabl­e we may claim to be.

• In the future, we will certainly need someone for something. This is the reason we must be open- minded and be willing to be a tool in helping someone. Help is important in life; and to be in need of help is not a mark of weakness. Not getting help when needed does not portray a curse.

Few Things We Must Know When Seeking For Assistance

• It is painful when you seek help and can’t find it.

• It is more painful when those whom you help or assist turn against you.

• It is frustratin­g when those who are in position to help you plainly demonstrat­e to you that they won’t help you.

• It is depressing when those who gave you ray of hope for help disappoint­s you, especially at the dying minute.

Hear This!

Most times we judge people wrongly. People, when relating with others or seeking for help in most cases draw conclusion based on looks, position or past glory; whereas such people are living below poverty level or are indebted. Today many things can be covered with looks, personalit­y, past glory, position, environmen­t, while the unnoticed truth is that the individual is sick and dying within. This is the area man is mentally deceived by assumption.

Looks can be very deceptive. I acknowledg­e that there are ways looks can help one navigate the challenges of life.

• Looks can grant or hinder human access.

• How one looks can impact relationsh­ip. Appearance matters a lot in relationsh­ip. This is so because ‘ man assess you by appearance.’ In 1Samuel 16: 7; Samuel nearly rejected a man because of his looks, height and grooming. Ask yourself, “if not for divine interventi­on, the said man could have lost his God- ordained position. Today, how many persons truly hear from God? Therefore, take your appearance seriously. No man can see your heart, but they will certainly see your appearance – begin with what they can see for what they cannot see is reserved for God and God alone.

What you look like gives you the name they will call you and earns you the chair you will seat before others.

Prov. 31: 30 says: “Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Our focus is on ‘ how the world sees us’ – your look can actually act as a charm on people – Yes! Take your look serious; not with the intention to deceive, but be positive about it. You may be good inside, if your looks contradict your inside, someone may be deceived into thinking you are bad. Your look introduces you more than anything on earth. Every other thing comes later. Your first impression leaves marks in the mind of the people you interface with. Looks say something like – look at him or her – that is what he/ she is like.

Peter emphasised the importance of inner beauty without dismissing the outward beauty ( 1Peter 3: 3- 4). The inner beauty is very important as it can help to retain the already built mindset.

 ?? ?? The Rector, Venerable Stephen Wolemonwu
The Rector, Venerable Stephen Wolemonwu

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