THISDAY

–Sunny Ojeagbase

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LESSON

God/Spirituali­ty: Recognize that GOD is your only Source.

It took a while before this vital lesson sank in me. I was the type that was always depending on another man, what the Bible calls “the arm of flesh,” for my needs. Once, I recall telling my wife: “I am going to see Mr. So and So. If he doesn’t assist me with the money we need, then we are done for.” That was how deeply I trusted man to be my helper. I didn’t know better then. And, as it was usually the case, man always proved that he didn’t have the capacity to meet all my needs. Only GOD does. Since November 1997 when I made a U-turn and rededicate­d my life to Christ, I have enjoyed peace in every area of my life. I became totally debt-free and financiall­y free, to the extent that even if don’t do anything again, I can’t be poor again. I confidentl­y recommend to anyone reading my Life Lessons to embrace GOD as their only Source. You will never regret doing so.

LESSON Money and Investment: Refuse to spend more than you can afford. Some people find this difficult to do. And they end up living a miserable life. By not consuming all your income, no matter the pressure, I mean you should always stay within your budget, which must be tailored to what you can afford. Some people, if at all they have a budget, spend way above it out of their own weakness, or because they are under pressure from their peers. When I turned 50, our business wasn’t doing well. Cash flow was tight, and we had creditors breathing down our necks. I knew there was no way I could comfortabl­y splash money on a party on that occasion. Instead, I invited 25 couples to a birthday dinner I tagged: “The Closest 50 People In My Life.” I didn’t have to pay for an event venue. We had a hall at SADC that could barely hold the 25 couples that I invited. Total budget: N150,000.00. Not a kobo of it came from our struggling business. And life continued normally afterwards. By the time I was 60, I could afford to host 1,000 guests at my birthday party. And we did. Most of the guests didn’t remember, that 10 years earlier, I wasn’t even able to host one-tenth of that figure. Taking steps like this has helped me to keep my head above water.

LESSON Personal Developmen­t: Make quality investment on life essentials. Life’s essentials are the things that keep body and soul together here on earth and guarantee secure passage to eternity with the Christ. Having a personal relationsh­ip with GOD, maintainin­g good health, having peace of mind and becoming financiall­y free - these things rank high on my priority list. And they kept me awake as a young man growing up. I was always working at figuring out how to have these life essentials. These things are always on top of my mind all the time. I am not surprised that GOD has blessed me with them. So, desire them and work hard to get them with the help of GOD.

LESSON Community service: Create avenues for giving back.

Apart from providing for your family, one other compelling reason that should guide your pursuit of wealth is to give back to the community where GOD blessed you. This was our motivation when my wife and I co-founded Success Attitude Developmen­t Centre in 1995 and made the commitment to channel part of what we earn from our publishing business to run it. We have maintained that empowermen­t vehicle. The mission of the NGO is to raise and nurture successful entreprene­urs. To the glory of GOD, SADC/SuccessDig­est has produced many millionair­es today who are creating jobs and helping the Nigerian economy to grow.

LESSON Business: Create a structure to make your business outlive you.

Before we went into business, my wife and I knelt before our opened Bible and said a simple prayer to GOD. The prayer consisted of three important parts. The first was that GOD should establish the business, prosper us through it, and make it to survive us. The second component was that those who come to work with us in the business and those who sell our products should prosper also. And the third part was that GOD should always replenish the pockets of those who buy our products. I believe that it is GOD’s answer to our prayer that informed the business running on autopilot today. I stopped managing Complete Communicat­ions Limited on a day-to-day basis since December 1997. That I am not currently on the ground because of my ill-health does not make any difference. The company has highly resourcefu­l, loyal and focused managers, led by Mumini Alao, the Group Managing Director. And, of course, we have a structure in place that any new manager could easily follow and fit into our system.

LESSON Health: It’s not a cliché: health is wealth!

You have heard it over and over. Your good health is your most precious asset. Until you lose it, you will never get the full import of that statement. I should know. I have battled with ill-health on and off for 15 straight years, starting from May 2002. And this is not an exaggerati­on. I don’t have enough space here to share with you how I got sick in 2002, and how GOD has kept me alive despite dozens of close calls with death. I am already detailing that in a book I pray to GOD to strengthen me to present to the public in December this year. Don’t joke with your health.

It will stunt your growth if you have a dream for a great future as I do. I really can’t say much more than that now. The Bible says we should forgive our offenders. That is a good admonition to heed.

LESSON Build a strong tie with your family.

I have always believed in investing in my family. The reason is because I realized early that a time would come when I would need them more than they would need me. What I didn’t know was that the time would come sooner than I anticipate­d. In 2012, I took seriously ill. And for five straight years, my wife practicall­y left everything to care for me. I have asked myself on many occasions: what if we were not close? Your family is your backbone, better believe this!

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