My Life Today Made Possible By the Benevolence of Others
Whenever her name is mentioned, the Sinachi Foundation readily comes to mind. That’s talking about Mrs. Ifesinachi Ugwuonye- Okechukwu, founder of the charity organisation. This philanthropist recently marked the 20th anniversary of the foundation in her hometown, at Amankwo Oghe, Ezeagu Local Government Area in Enugu State. Ifesinachi is passionate about education and the girl child. She persistently challenges privileged persons to join hands to help keep kids in school and out of the streets. For her, everyone must continue to work hard until no child is left behind. Ifesinachi, a Mortgage Banker and a Lawyer, shares the story of her life and the quest for better life for her people in particular and Nigerians in general with Tolulope Ibukunoluwa
I grew up across Africa, Europe and America began my elementary school in Benin City, Secondary School in Enugu State, and undergraduate at the University of Port Harcourt, (Foreign Languages); then Master’s Degree in International Commerce from Lille, France; MBA from Arizona, USA, and Law School Juris Doctor (JD) from California, USA. So, I grew up across Africa, Europe and America. Professionally speaking, I am a Senior Mortgage Banker, and a Lawyer.
I was born at a time of great depression and instability in Nigeria
I was actually born at a time of great depression and instability in Nigeria, at the end of the civil war. My father, Prince Michael Ugwuonye, was a teacher, and the son of the then traditional ruler and customary Judge, Ezeani Ugwuonye. One could say that my family was privileged back then, but things were different by the time I was born, especially with my father and grand-father dying before I knew them. I grew up outside my immediate family, on the efforts of a very caring aunt, my father’s older sister. I was taught responsibility very early in life. I was raised to raise others.
I am a product of people’s benevolence
In many ways, my background and experiences helped to shape the person that I am today. Mine was a humble beginning. I am a product of people’s benevolence, and belief in me. At a very tender age, I realised and appreciated the meaning of working hard, and remaining true to the cause. I knew earlier on that before any meal, there must be work done. I learned perseverance, patience, dedication, loyalty, determination and focus.
I have a striking physical resemblance to my father
This is rather complicated. My father passed when I was only two years old. As such, I never knew him. I lived with my aunt from three years old, and as such, didn’t grow up with my mother or siblings either. However, my aunt kept my father’s image alive in me, by the stories she told me. My father was loved by his community, due to his commitment and efforts in the development of Umumba Ndiuno, and Ezeagu communities, at large. I got most of the values from my aunt. From the photos, I have a striking physical resemblance to my father, and people say that I have his character as well.
I became an adult before I could be a child
The best gift I received as a child is the gift of having my aunt, who instilled in me compassion and empathy. She taught me to be open-minded, and to respect all persons, regardless of their current situation. She taught me to love unconditionally, to see the good in everyone, and to pray for even my enemies. I can’t remember being a child really. I became an adult before I could be a child. I am married to a good man
How did marriage happen for me? (Laughs) That will fill a page of your