Bea Alonzo not ready for new romance
‘Sa mga pinagdaanan ko, na-realize ko na dapat hindi mo iniiwasan ang mga pain. Dapat ineendure mo siya, dapat natututo ka, dapat hindi ka natatakot kapag may lungkot na paparating. Dapat harapin mo siya nang diretso and then learn from it.’
She has moved on from her breakup with Gerald Anderson but Bea Alonzo
is not about to jump into another relationship. “Tapos na ako doon, okay na ako,” she said of her failed romance with the hunk actor.
The actress realized that despite what happened, there are still a lot she should be thankful for.
“Ang dami palang mas importante sa buhay ko, hindi lang jowa (boyfriend),” she said. “So many blessings came, it was like a 360 degree turn.”
Asked if she has found a new boyfriend, or even just a prospect from her any of her suitors, Bea shook her head.
“Wala pa naman po. Parang magpapahinga muna ako. Parang hindi ko pa kaya.”
Well, but she has moved on, right?
“Hindi naman kailangang magka-boyfriend para patunayang naka-move on ka na,” she said laughing.
“Hindi naman sa isasarado ko ang puso ko. Magpapagaling ka lang and then ’pag dumating ang tamang panahon, kapag ready ka na ulit, eh, di i-open mo na ’yung heart mo ulit.”
Rekindled friendship
friendship Bea admitted with “Unbreakable” there was a time co-star her Angelica Panganiban hit a rough patch, to the point they stopped talking to each other.
“Naranasan namin ’yan, matagal,” she
mused.
But even then, she was still concerned about Angelica.
“Kahit na noong mga panahon na hindi kami nakakapag-usap at may mga napapanood ako na mga bagay tungkol sa kanya, alam mo ’yung you get still affected. You still think about the person, you still wish and pray that she gets better and she feels better.”
Bea added: “Alam mo na life happens,
pero this person is a good person and she deserves the best. I’m just so glad I could tell her that now.”
Of late, the two were in almost similar predicament of going through heartbreak.
Bea said: “Malaking bagay na may pinagdaanan siya in the past tapos ako din halos pareho ’yung pinagdaanan namin. ’Di ba ganoon ’yun, na kapag nakaka-relate kayo sa pinagdaanan ng isa’t-isa, parang mas bonded kayo. Kasi tinutulungan ninyo ang isa’t-isa na mag-heal, na maka-move on.”
“Kapag may mga moments na down ’yung isa, may magsasabi na, ‘Ang dami mo nang kinaya, bakla, ito pa ba?’ Ang feeling ko nga, everything just fell into place noong tinanggap namin ito (the movie ‘Unbreakable’). Parang lahat nangyari nang tamang panahon.”
So, can a woman reach unbreakable level?
“Gusto kong mag-agree doon sa sinabi ni Direk Mae (Alviar) na pain makes you unbreakable. If you are able to soar above all the difficulties, in time — if you are
able to get to everything na ibato sa iyo ng buhay at lumabas ka doon nang buo — that
makes you unbreakable. Pero siyempre, habang nabubuhay ka ay patuloy pa rin ang mga pagsubok na ibibigay sa iyo ni Lord para mas gawin kang unbreakable para mas marami kang matutunan.
“Para sa akin, sa mga pinagdaanan ko, na-realize ko na dapat hindi mo iniiwasan ang mga pain. Dapat ine-endure mo siya, dapat natututo ka, dapat hindi ka natatakot kapag may lungkot na paparating. Dapat harapin mo siya nang diretso and then learn from it. You will become unbreakable and you will become a better person.”