Manila Bulletin

Don’t be afraid

- FR. BEL SAN LUIS, SVD

In his book Man's Search for Meaning, Dr. Viktor Frankl wrote about his three years in Nazi concentrat­ion camps. Even in that extreme situation where prisoners survive on meager rations, Frankl recalled, there were men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread.

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They may have been few in number, but they offered proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing — the freedom to choose his attitude in any given set of circumstan­ces.

Subjected to hunger and physical deprivatio­ns, these inmates could have become selfish, grasping, but they opted instead to share the little that they had. "Do not fear those who deprive the body of life but cannot destroy the soul," our Lord teaches in this Sunday gospel (Matthew 10:28).

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Today the follower of Christ may not live in the same milieu as those prisoners. Nonetheles­s, one can suffer the same lot because, like them, he or she sticks to his faith and moral conviction­s. For instance, one can be honest in work, just to one’s workers or faithful to God when a health crisis like COVID-19 strikes.

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Or, when you are going through difficulty in your marriage but you’re trying really hard to save it because you believe the Lord's words, "What God has joined together, let no man put asunder," don’t be afraid as long as you’re holding on to Him in faith.

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This is what our Lord means and exhorts us to do when He says in today’s gospel, “He who acknowledg­es Me before others, I will acknowledg­e him before My heavenly Father. But whoever denies Me before others I will deny him before

My heavenly Father.”

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LOVE YOUR FATHER DESPITE HIS FAILINGS

Today is Father’s Day. Let’s greet and pray for all fathers, living or dead. Let us remember, also, our spiritual fathers — PRIESTS.

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Apart from giving a good example, one very important gift a father can give to his children is quality time. There’s a subtle enemy that can erode family relationsh­ip, and that is WORK.

One working father offered this insight: "Sometimes I feel that the time I spend with my sons could be better spent at the office.

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Then I remind myself that the productivi­ty report will affect life for a few days or weeks. But my job as a father is more important.

"If I'm a good father to my sons, they're likely to be good parents too someday."

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And to children, here’s a timely reminder from the book of Sirach, “My son, take care of your father when he is old, grieve him not as long as he lives. Even if his mind fails, be considerat­e with him… For kindness to a father will not be forgotten, it will serve as a sin offering.” (Sir 3:2-6).

Love your father despite his failings and weaknesses.

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THE LIGHTER SIDE. In an amusement park, there’s an added attraction: A giant crocodile basking in the pond. A poster along the railing publicizes that whoever can jump into the water and come up alive will receive a ₱1-million reward. Nobody would dare do it despite the huge amount.

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But one day out of the blue, there was splash and a man fell into the pond. He swam with all of his might and in no time was climbing up the railing. Everybody gave a loud, rousing applause. When asked why he did it, the man said still puffing hard, “My wife pushed me!” The group turned to the wife, “Why did you do that!” “Well, we need the money badly.” Now I believe in the saying: “Behind every successful man, there’s a woman.” Husbands, take note.

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APPEAL FOR COVID-19 VICTIMS. Please help the indigents and victims of the coronaviru­s pandemic we’re supporting. Contribute any amount. The Lord said, “Whatever you did to the least of My brethren, you did it for Me” (Mt. 25:40).

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For inquiry, e-mail me at: belsvd@gmail.com.

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