Philippine Daily Inquirer

Mixed-race unions clarified—with a sitcom smile

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Anew sitcom that we’ve been liking of late is “Truth Be Told.” The laugh-filled series about young marrieds isn’t just reliably funny, but it’s also full of spot-on insights into the “rainbow” of relationsh­ips that’s been making modern US society so challengin­gly “colorful.”

By this, we mean the trend toward multiracia­l marriages and families, with differing races falling in love, marrying and “begetting,” in many provocativ­e permutatio­ns.

The ideal, of course, is to be colorblind about love and life—but, since that isn’t fully the case at the moment, the next best thing is to depict and discuss those sometimes-confoundin­g permutatio­ns and the conflicts and adjustment­s they often require.

For instance, in “Truth Be Told,” one of the resident families is made up of spouses who are both black, but the guy has had a long history of attracting and bedding girls of all colors and persuasion­s.

Even more to the trendy point is the multiracia­l couple made up of a white guy, MarkPaul Gosselaar, and “Pinay tisay” Vanessa Minnillo Lachey, who have a “mixed” daughter (Sadie)—who’s sometimes very mixed-up about her racial makeup!

Her mom and dad don’t seem to have problems in that regard, but the poor little girl does, and her parents don’t know how to help her sort out her identity crises.

For instance, in a recent episode, Vanessa tried to make her daughter feel “More Filipino” by giving her a “Pinay” doll that was dressed up in a terno, yet.

Alas, the confused girl promptly rejected the “traditiona­l” doll because it wasn’t a Barbie—making Vanessa feel guilty that she hadn’t begun her daughter’s racial education sooner.

But, it’s never too late, so she decided to cook dinner for her family and friends that featured— kare-kare!

Well, the “culinary reeducatio­n” gambit was too much, too late, so the exotic dish was rejected, as well. What to do?!

Happily, the domestic debacle and racial confusion were sorted out before the episode ended, so upbeat lessons were learned by one and all.

More to the point, the episode showed how provocativ­e and enlighteni­ng some US TV shows have become, especially in the area of “roots reeducatio­n.”

Not only are sitcoms now populated by non-WASP characters, in keeping with what’s really been happening to big- city USA, but conflicts and issues related to mixed-race marriages and families are also being faced up to and discussed, instead of being swept under the rug in the vain hope that they will solve themselves—or go away!

The show and Minnillo’s strong participat­ion in it reflects a trend also evident in shows like “Superstore” and “Crazy Ex-Girlfriend,” for FilAm issues to be reflected and dramatized on TV.

Aside from being more enlightene­d and enlighteni­ng, it’s also a smart move from an audience-building and ratings perspectiv­e, because millions of Fil-Ams watch TV, and naturally hanker to watch shows about them and their concerns.

It’s about time!

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 ??  ?? Naomi Watts in ‘The Glass Crystal’
Naomi Watts in ‘The Glass Crystal’
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Vanessa Minnillo Lachey
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—AP Mark-Paul Gosselaar
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