Sun.Star Cebu

More than just a birth certificat­e

- NOEMI FETALVERO noemifetal­vero@yahoo.com

Former Department of Social Welfare and Developmen­t secretary Dinky Soliman declared recently that she is first and foremost a Filipino and has not lost her citizenshi­p.

“Oo, naging parte ako ng dating administra­syon pero hindi naman ako nawalan ng pagka-Pilipino ko.” (Yes, I was part of the previous administra­tion but I never lost my Filipino citizenshi­p). Soliman is an active member of Tindig Pilipinas, a newly organized group making a stand against the Duterte administra­tion.

It takes more to be a Filipino than what our certificat­e of live birth states.

Filipinos are peculiar yet understand­able, sensitive but resilient, submissive yet brave enough to take a stand. Yes, Filipinos are submissive but when pushed to the wall, we will show you that we have the blood of Lapu-Lapu. So beware. We pride in being a hospitable people and we are grateful for everything and we call that “utang na loob” (debt of gratitude). We tend to be more creative and innovative since we are deprived of so many things.

Just like any other race, we have our peculiarit­ies. A Filipino smiles on his way to court for the hearing of a serious crime filed against him. During a TV interview, a Filipino smiles in the midst of a disaster or a calamity.

We are stubborn too. A Filipino refuses to wear any mask or safety goggles when drilling or welding respective­ly. A Filipino believes that traffic rules and regulation­s are meant to be broken. A Filipino also thinks that our country is one big trash can and a flooded street is one big swimming pool. I do not know whether this is genetic or endemic, but why does a Filipino insist on relieving himself in public even right in front of signage that discourage­s it?

Foreigners wished Filipinos were precise in giving directions: “If you want to get lost, ask a Filipino for directions.” Yes, we tend to give too much detail instead of just saying “left, right or straight.” We give directions with reference to a sari-sari store, a mango tree, a lamp post, a dog that is tied to a tree or the rooster in front of the house. “Filipinos point with their lips when giving directions,” observed a tourist.

Invite a Filipino to an occasion. The invitation says, “You are cordially invited…” She will interpret “you” to mean the entire clan.

A Filipino confuses shyness from being unassertiv­e, brutal from being frank, dull from being meek and a “chismoso” from being observant.

We may have our imperfecti­ons but those do not make up what we truly are. I am still proud to be a Filipino.

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