EMOTIONAL BANKRUPTCY

The author is Master Teacher Angeles City

ERNESTO N. YAP JR.

Giving 100% of your time and effort but only receive 10% is not worth the wait. Tired of the emotional roller-coaster situation and hanging around when everything went well. According to the recent studies, psychology claimed that most of the people suffered from a traumatic life drama— trust, honesty, and love are some of the main reasons why people get rid of their personal feelings. Building walls to refrain them from the intensive emotions they may possibly encounter give them the satisfaction away from being hurt. Unknowingly, they were not vigilant that they actually hurt themselves more.

When things are not on their way, when all they do was to drop everything for the sake of true love, for unending searches trying to find who belongs to them and who are not with their sincerest intentions. It baffled everything. They were hooked with their dazzling, alluring, and inviting personality. These were some of the fancy fairy tailed in the world of fantasy.

Nowadays, most of the 21st learners indulge themselves online for a specific reason— to love and be loved so dearly. Apparently, these were not the reason that comes out. They feel more rejected and abused because the more they long for love the more chances that love will get rid of them. Funny for some but these feeling should not be taken for granted. The tons of problems were becoming serious especially if they had already intimate feelings, built and invested most of their time and place themselves in the calendar of dates. It hurts to bring that emotions only thinking that they were deprived more than before.

As educators, be vigilant and observant inside the classroom especially with the learners with such cases. Guiding, talking, and monitoring them lessen the suicidal risk. Above all, sharing real life’s experiences along and accompanied with concerns advocates emotional satisfaction. In this lieu, learners who suffered from emotional bankruptcy felt more to be loved and cared. Judging and humiliating should be out of the picture but instead a loving and caring heart should rule.

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I of Rafael L. Lazatin Memorial High School, Balibago,