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Tips on how to have a stronger relationsh­ip with your partner

- Alentine’s Day is two days away from now. Bet you already have some romantic plans for him or her, but do you really know how to have a stronger relationsh­ip with your partner? Here are some tips for you: 1. Always have communicat­ion between the both of y

You and your partner must always have to talk to each other, you can just talk about how are things, how’s work or school—you should let them tell their story so that you can put things in order and understand how he or she felt on that specific day. Not knowing what happened would not just make your partner not talk to you, but also build a tall wall between the both of you. This situation would be a call of disadvanta­ge in the future, considerin­g you and your partner didn’t have time to talk about certain things and this sometimes will create a big deal of misunderst­anding when it comes to arguments.

Prove your trust to your partner by being a never-ending faithful person to him or her. Both you and your partner settled in a relationsh­ip, after all. Being in a relationsh­ip tests your loyalty. Don’t ever bother looking for another man or woman who is not your partner. Not being loyal to your partner would immediatel­y put your partner in a devastatin­g state and never look at you in the same way.

Trust is a big word, like what actress Sarah Geronimo as Laida Magtalas said in the film with actor John Lloyd Cruz, “It Takes a Man and a Woman.” As it is said, it is a big word—a big word that takes you and your partner to have a commitment together. Once trust gets broken, your so-called relationsh­ip would only let you or your partner see red.

Your partner is your best friend. Period. Not saying that you’re putting him or her in the friend zone—it’s because you can spill everything, even a tiny bit of something, to him or her because you trust him or her. Having a best friend of a partner is an awesome feeling since you’re not awkwardly conscious or afraid to talk them, because you feel free talking to each other.

Nobody’s perfect—even your partner who you think is the perfect match for you. Even though he or she have these flaws that you always look out for, you still have to find ways to treat him or her the best person that ever happened to you. Moreover, you should accept those flaws, and think of them as what makes your partner the perfect one. With that mindset, you will be able to not just ignore what they lack, but also you can love your partner even more. This is a secret!

Give everything, especially time, to your partner. They would definitely appreciate it whenever you’re spending time for him or her. He or she already knows that time is precious and continues to pass by, and you’re giving it to him or her. You can always invite him or her out on a date. Regardless if it’s a small or a big deal, he or she would love it, because he or she loves you with all of his or her heart.

Aside from just thinking of your partner in your life in the future, you can also think about how you’ll spend it with him or her. You can also talk this to him or her, to give your partner that heart-pumping feeling he or she felt at the start.

Staying in love with him or her has the most amazing perks. You have someone to hold on to, to talk to, and to take care to---these would only give back to you since he or she loves you so much.

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