Scaling her mountains

Dear Ma’am Rica,

First time ko pong nagkagirlfriend at nasa proseso po kami ng pageexplore with her sexually. Every chance we have na kami lang, we are making out pero ang hindi ko po alam is ano yung pwedeng gawin with her breasts. Lalaruin ko po ba yun? Papano po siya laruin para magenjoy yung girlfriend ko. Kapag sine-search ko po kasi mas madami pong sources na mas nagfofocus sa vagina, G-spot, or clitoris. Parang wala pong info about sa breasts. Help naman po. Thank you

Mountain Climber

Hi Mountain Climber,

I appreciate that you are concerned about your girlfriend’s enjoyment and pleasure. Baka ngayon, isa pang misteryo sayo kung papano magagamit ang kanyang breasts for your mutual appreciation but siguro through experimentation and open communication, soon enough, hindi na yan magiging isang big mystery.

Before anything else, siguro okay din that you should be able to talk about this with your girlfriend. You might try to tell her that when you are making out, nagkakaroon ka ng urge to caress her breasts.

She might give you the go signal to touch her there. You can try different approaches sa paghawak or paglaro nito pero syempre, always handle with care. Walang exact formula that works for all people. Use your hands, mouth, or any body part in touching, kissing, licking, tickling or massaging. You can also explore using lubricants or oils na parang nag-mamasage lang.

Usually, breasts are seen as foreplay items. Pero meron din tayong tinatawag na nipple orgasms na pwedeng gamitin in combination with other sexual acts. Mix and match kumbaga with making out, oral sex or actual intercourse.

Both of you can practice with each other para naman malaman nyo ang inyong likes and dislikes and help in your sexual relationship.

Tandaan mo lang na kahit lost ka ngayon, sex play can be developed as a skill. Wala ding template that works with everyone, like I said.

So the best way is really na magusap kayo ng partner mo to know what you both like or what you both want to explore. Laging tatandaan, be safe in more ways than one.

I wish you all the breast! *wink* #takeitfromthesexymind With Love and Lust,

Rica

*** If you have questions on love and sex that you want me to answer, you may message me at www.facebook. com/TheSexyMind

(Biography: Rica Cruz is a Licensed Psychologist, Marriage Counselor, and, Sex and Relationships Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Psychologist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.)