Going Home for “Kalag-Kalag”
For sure, by now everybody is already all set for the visit to the cemeteries on All Saints’ Day and All Souls’ Day. Those who need to go home to their towns must already be raring to go. Next to Christmas or the town fiesta, “kalag-kalag” is a big homecoming occasion.
Aside from remembering the dear departed – while it’s the main reason for the occasion – “kalag-kalag” is also a time for family reunions. Relatives come to visit the graves of dear ones who have passed on. Back at home, they enjoy one another’s presence, stories and the cooking of the women in the family.
The two days are a solemn observance and a merry one as well. The older members of the gathered clam reminisce to good old days, while the young ones enjoy listening to stories from the past and connecting with others in their age group within the family circle. It’s the two days eagerly looked forward to by everyone.
But going home for “kalag-kalag” is quite a challenge for all. Considering the huge exodus to the province, one has to squeeze his way into the transport terminals. Even if the destination is just within the main Cebu island, for example, the bus terminals – and the buses themselves – would be overflowing with passengers. It gets worse a day or two to November 1.
To save one’s nerves, Mariae Francesca Ramos, in an article at www.imoney.com, shares sensible tips:
It may be rather late now, but perhaps there’s still possible to buy a ticket in advance in order to be sure that you have a bus seat in your name. If not
Book your trip in advance.
possible anymore this late, remember to do so next time.
The annual migration hits its peak between October 30 and November 2. So, to avoid getting stuck in traffic, you may schedule your trips outside of those days. It means leaving early and coming back late.
Those that won’t have to go out of the city may do the same on their trips to and from the cemeteries. Leaving home early in the morning and returning late in the evening is likely
Go early – or go late.
to spare them from traffic jams.
If driving to the province, make sure your car is fit for the long drive. It’s important to have basic car maintenance performed before any major trip. Have the engine, battery, tires, brake pads, oil, fuel, and lights inspected before hitting the road. Also have an emergency kit prepared, as well as a copy of your car insurance (including emergency numbers to call especially if it has a complimentary 24/7 roadside assistance).
If commuting, take note of the locations of security personnel and K9 units, as well as first aid, help desks, and charging stations positioned at bus terminals, airports and ports whom you can approach for any concern.
The Philippine National Police also enjoins the traveling public to keep vigilant when going home for the “kalagkalag” with these reminders:
• Be at the (bus terminal, ports) as early as you can
• Mind your tickets
• Avoid wearing expensive jewelry
• Be wary of your belongings
• Stay alert against thieves and malicious characters
• If traveling with small children, always be watchful of them
Make safety a priority.
Before leaving, one should make sure to secure the home. Every door and window should be locked. As much as possible, appliances must be unplugged. It also helps to keep a light on to ward off burglars, and ask a trusted neighbor to keep watch of one’s place while he’s out.