The Philippine Star

NOT HOLDING GRUDGES

- MARVIN WILLIAMS

During a promotiona­l event in 2011, two seventy-three-year-old former Canadian Football League players got into a fistfight on stage. They had a “beef” (a grudge or feud) dating back to a controvers­ial championsh­ip football game in 1963. After one man knocked the other off the stage, the crowd called out to him to “let it go!” They were telling him to “squash the beef.”

The Bible contains many examples of people “beefing.” Cain held a grudge against his brother Abel because God accepted Abel’s offering over his (Genesis 4:4-5). This grudge was so severe that it eventually led to murder as “Cain attacked his brother . . . and killed him” (v. 8). “Esau held a grudge against Jacob” because Jacob stole the birthright that was rightfully his (27:41). This grudge was so intense that it caused Jacob to run for his life in fear.

Not only does the Bible give us several examples of people who held grudges, but it also instructs us on how to “squash the beef” – how to seek forgivenes­s and reconcilia­tion. God calls us to love others (Leviticus 19:18), pray for and forgive those who insult and injure us (Matthew 5:43-47), live peaceably with all people, leave revenge to God, and overcome evil with good (Romans 12:18-21). By His power, may we “squash the beef” today.

Why is it vital for us to not hold grudges? How will you work to restore a broken or damaged relationsh­ip this week? Jesus, thank You that I can forgive others because You’ve forgiven me. BIBLE IN A YEAR EXODUS 16-18; MATTHEW 18:1-20 | Follow us on social media: our daily bread pi lip in as, web: odb.org and filipino-odb.org, and check our resources at ourdailybr­eadpilipin­as.org.

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