The Philippine Star

PERFECT LIKE CHRIST

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“Perfection­ism is one of the scariest words I know,” Kathleen Norris writes, thoughtful­ly contrastin­g modern-day perfection­ism with the “perfection” described in the book of Matthew. Modernday perfection­ism she describes as “a serious psychologi­cal affliction that makes people too timid to take necessary risks.” But the word translated “perfect” in Matthew actually means mature, complete, or whole. Norris concludes, “To be perfect . . . is to make room for growth [and become] mature enough to give ourselves to others.”

Understand­ing perfection this way helps make sense of the profound story told in Matthew 19, where a man asked Jesus what good he could do to “get eternal life” (v. 16). Jesus responded, “Keep the commandmen­ts” (v. 17). The man thought he’d obeyed all of them, yet he knew something was missing. “What do I still lack?” (v. 20) he asked.

That’s when Jesus identified the man’s wealth as the vise-grip stifling his heart. He said that if he wanted “to be perfect” – whole, willing to give and receive from others in God’s kingdom – then he must be willing to let go of what was closing off his heart from others (v. 21).

Each of us has our own version of perfection – possession­s or habits we cling to as a futile attempt to be in control. Today, hear Jesus’ gentle invitation to surrender – and find freedom in the wholeness that’s only possible in Him (v. 26). MONICA LA ROSE

When have you mistaken personal goals for biblical “perfection”? How can surrenderi­ng control to God offer freedom from perfection­ism? Loving God, forgive me for so often mistaking my own self-improvemen­t ambitions for growing in You! Help me to surrender control and embrace a life of freedom with You.

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