Ruby Ruiz on acting with Nicole Kidman, playing crucial role in ‘Expats’
RUBY RUIZ RECALLED HER FIRST REACTION when she found out that she was going to work closely with the Hollywood superstar Nicole Kidman in the Prime Video series “Expats.”
Ruby was still working on the 2021 TV5 teleserye Niña Niño when she received a call from director Lulu Wang that she bagged the role of Essie, the Filipina nanny to the family of Nicole’s character Margaret.
“Which role did I get? ‘Oh the role that you auditioned for, which is Essie.’ ‘Oh Essie,’ ganun lang. (Lulu Wang) said, ‘Aren’t you excited?’ ‘Oh yes, I am,’ I said. ‘Won’t you ask who’s going to play your boss?’ Who is Margaret? Then she said it’s Nicole Kidman. Napa-ano talaga ako (gasp).”
When the Filipino veteran actress and the Oscar-winning Australian actress were introduced for the first time, Ruby recalled that she couldn’t help but ask in front of Nicole, “Is this for real? Tapos sabi niya, ‘Yes! Touch me, touch me!’ Tinouch ko naman, hahaha!”
In “Expats,” Nicole is the New York landscape architect Margaret who relocates with her three kids overseas after her husband (played by Brian Tee) lands a job in Hong Kong. Her struggle with the expat life takes a turn for the worse when their young son Gus (Connor Gillman) suddenly disappears in a crowded market while under the care of a new babysitter Mercy (Ji Young Yoo).
As for Ruby’s Essie, in Episode 1, it is immediately established that she is trusted by Margaret’s family, including in-laws, and well-loved by her kids.
Ruby learned about “Expats” through fellow Pinay actress Chanel Latorre, who had two callbacks but got told that they were looking for someone older. She thought of Ruby.
At first, the actress wasn’t too keen to audition, explaining that “di naman ako nakukuha sa ganyan, lagi akong shortlisted.” She cited that she auditioned for the “Triangle of Sadness” role that went to Dolly De Leon. “I’m not really interested because I also had a teleserye at that time, so I couldn’t leave the country. But they were really persistent,” she said. She submitted a self-tape. The last round of auditions was done in both English and Tagalog and conducted over Zoom with the director and producers.
One month later, she got the part. “It’s really a blessing that they got me for ‘Expats.’”
The shoot was supposed to be three months only but lasted for 11 months, bringing her to Maldives for the quarantine, in Hong Kong for the filming and Los Angeles for the shoot continuation.
Ruby said, “Considering the experience and the amenities that came with the package, sobrang worth it. I would never, ever experience living in, you know, a fivestar serviced apartment… Everything was provided for, pati sa set, all your costumes, yung kulang nalang underwear pero kung nag-request pa ako…”
“As an artist, there’s no reason for you to come to the set unprepared because there was nothing to complain about, there was no request that wasn’t given,” she said.
Recalling some on-set anecdotes, especially with Nicole who also served as producer, Ruby said that the latter was “generous in so many ways” to everyone. She confirmed she received some gifts from the actress. “At ‘di tayo nagpapatalo kasi binigyan ko siya ng pandesal,” she quipped.
“Because there was one scene, where the kids didn’t want the dinner buns, then (my line was), you want pandesal or something. Nicole really said, what’s pandesal, they immediately googled it. Someone said, ‘Ask Ruby.’ So, I explained that we have it in the morning for breakfast and also anytime of the day, it’s our version of the dinner bun. ‘Is it sweet?’ She kept asking questions, I felt she wanted to taste it, so we ordered the most delicious pandesal. Of course, ‘di tayo pahuhuli, when they tasted it, they really liked it.”
Meanwhile, Ruby is proud to embody a character that is very crucial to the story.
“Talagang kinilabutan ako, just reading the script. ‘Expats’ is about the lives of expats, three women, na meron nangyari na tragedy sa storya, which affected all of them,” Ruby said.
“Now, where does the role of the Filipino nanny come in… what’s shown is that without expats, there wouldn’t be any domestic helpers. You know the privileges they enjoy, especially in Hong Kong, and just like in Manila, when you’re an expat there, you have a driver, a nanny. The presence of domestic helpers in the lives of expats is crucial. And adding to Essie’s role, her employer Margaret, whose conflict as an expat’s wife is connected to her jealousy… because usually, the children become closer to the nanny… how innate it is for a Filipina nanny or domestic helper to pour all her passion into her service, how she treats her charges as if they were her own.”
In Episodes 1 and 2, Margaret faces a dilemma where she feels her worth as a mother and as a person is diminished because the children become more attached to Essie, Ruby further said.
The actress was also conscious of how Filipino OFWs will be viewed in this project. There were scenes where she spoke English while interacting with the characters of Nicole and Brian.
“But there were parts na parang Carabao English, ‘di ako pumayag. I had to talk to the director, very politely, that a majority of overseas Filipino workers are educated, a lot of them are teachers in the country, some are even principals. Maybe we don’t speak the way you speak, in terms of accent, but we’re conscious about our grammar. We do speak English and we’re able to communicate,” she said.
“I was very conscious of portraying a very realistic image of a Filipino nanny and overseas worker.”
Meanwhile, viewers should watch out for Episode 5, where Ruby will figure in a confrontation scene with Nicole.
She said it’s her favorite scene in the entire series. “Not only because it was with Nicole Kidman but it’s because that’s where I felt the essence of the dilemma of a mother and migrant worker,” which is between choosing to return to her family in the Philippines or the “family” she established in Hong Kong where she works as a domestic helper.
“I had also immersed myself in the community of the domestics and yun
lagi dilemma nila, when they became close to the family.”
In this particular scene, she said she learned a lot from Nicole as an actress.
“It was my favorite because, in terms of acting, I got to experience how powerful Nicole Kidman is. I just looked into her eyes and nagpadala nalang ako, so to speak. So when people were congratulating me after the premiere in New York, saying I was very good in that scene, I would always tell them, no, it was Nicole, it’s really her scene. All I did was react to her as a character, and everything came out so beautifully. What was shown was very heartwarming — two kinds of women were portrayed, one expat and one migrant worker, and (how our conflict unfolded).”
Off screen, she was all praises for the lead star. “Napakabait niya, natural
na natural, taong tao… Especially with me, since I was the only Filipino she had scenes with, she was very considerate, you’d really feel it, she would try to make you feel at ease.
“During our first day of shoot, my chair was placed next to hers, oh my God! Eh ayoko umupo dun kasi nosebleed
‘di ba (laughs), but they let me sit beside her maybe to establish rapport. And she was very conscious of that, in fairness to NK, as we would fondly call her.
“She would strike conversations… she’s very friendly, very warm, even on set. For example, you’re on standby, when she sees you, she will hug you and say, ‘Oh Ruby is here.’ Inaagahan nila pagpasok ko sa set, gusto nila, ano, mas masaya si Nicole kasi naaaliw siya sa akin, ‘di ko alam bakit (laughs).”
Ruby teased that after “Expats,” she has a couple of international films coming up with one to be shot in Hollywood. The other is an AustralianFilipino joint project.
“Hopefully, after ‘Expats,’ that’s what they said (to have an agent) kasi
dun yata, they’re the ones who will approach you, not the other way around
sana meron ganun. But immediately (after), I’ll be doing something. So I hope to get more projects as an offspring of ‘Expats.’ The Australian-Filipino collaboration, I got that role and project because of ‘Expats,’ because the director approached Lulu Wang, ‘I’m looking for a Filipina actor.’... I was recommended by Lulu Wang.”
(“Expats,” now on its third episode, is streaming on Amazon’s Prime Video.)