The Philippine Star

LOVE IS WORTH THE RISK

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After a friend ended our decade-long friendship without explanatio­n, I began slipping back into my old habit of keeping people at arms’ length. While processing my grief, I pulled a tattered copy of The Four Loves by C. S. Lewis off my shelf. Lewis makes a powerful observatio­n about love requiring vulnerabil­ity. He states there’s “no safe investment” when a person risks loving. He suggests that loving “anything [will lead to] your heart being wrung and possibly broken.” Reading those words changed how I read the account of the third time Jesus appeared to His disciples after His resurrecti­on (John 21:1–14), after Peter had betrayed Him not once but three times (18:15–27).

Jesus said, “Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?” (21:15).

After experienci­ng the sting of betrayal and rejection, Jesus spoke to Peter with courage not fear, strength not weakness, selflessne­ss not desperatio­n. He displayed mercy not wrath by confirming His willingnes­s to love.

Scripture reveals that “Peter was hurt because Jesus asked him the third time, ‘Do you love me?’ ” (v. 17). But when Jesus asked Peter to prove his love by loving others (vv. 15–17) and following Him (v. 19), He invited all His disciples to risk loving unconditio­nally. Each of us will have to answer when Jesus asks, “Do you love me?” Our answer will impact how we love others. Why would a loving God ask His beloved children to risk being hurt for the sake of loving others like Jesus did? How can an intimate relationsh­ip with God help you feel safe enough to risk loving? Loving God, please break down every wall that keeps me from being vulnerable so I can love You and others with Spirit-empowered courage, compassion, and consistenc­y.

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