Tips for making a smooth transition

Starting school for the first time, or commencing at a new school, is a big deal for both parents and children. They are faced with a new school environment, new classrooms, new classmates, new teachers, different responsibilities and new challenges. DR VANESSA VON AUER, Principal at Integrated International School, recommends this six-step approach to prepare yourself and your child.

#1 Most of us feel better about change and new experiences when we know what to expect. Before the first day, visit the school and go on a tour to familiarise your child and yourself with the place. If this isn’t possible, look at the school website.

#2 Speak with enthusiasm to your children about the transition, but don’t “over-discuss” the topic as this could provoke more anxiety. Let them approach you if they need to run their thoughts and feelings by you.

#3 Set aside a day for you and your child to go on a special trip to purchase school essentials such as uniforms, stationery and a lunch box.

#4 Put aside some regular “chat time” with your child, especially during the first week of school, for them to report their exciting experiences but also to discuss any doubts or concerns. It’s important not to force these chats, however.

#5T roubleshoot any potential issues your child may have prior to the first day of school. Let them raise these concerns independently; don’t bring them up yourself.

#6 Keep your own feelings, worries and anxieties in check. You are your child’s pillar of strength. On the first day, give them a hug and a kiss and confirm the arrangements for picking them up after school.