EDITOR’S NOTE
Well, I’ve had some disappointing news. My eldest was reading Shamus’s story on Dad jokes in our Kids’ Guide and she told me that my jokes were even worse...
It surprised me, because I have been “cracking myself up” for years. I suppose it’s like having mascara under your eyes, or some spinach in your teeth – no one really wants to tell you.
However, as I am the resilient type, I’m going to keep at it. It keeps me entertained and there’s not much else to laugh about... especially in the news. And, secretly, deep down I think my daughters like it. I guess we’ll know if that’s true when they read this!
On a more serious note, as women we are made resilient. When I was living in Zimbabwe, I heard stories of how some women farmers would have their babies in the field; they’d take an hour or two off to sort themselves out, then strap the baby on their back (usually with a towel) and get back to work.
So, for International Women’s Day on the 8th of March, it would be good to remind ourselves of how strong we can be – and to not let others or ourselves weaken us. Our internal dialogue is very important.
Men reading this, it’s probably a good time to check in and make sure you’re being strong and supportive, too. And, of course, keep up with your Dad jokes – I’m sure they’re appreciated. Humour is good!
I was trying to come up with something funny to end on, but all I can think of are my grandfather’s words if we ever complained that something was hard – he’d say, “harder still if you had none”. I guess that’s as good as any motivation to be resilient.
Be strong and be safe!
PS: The article on Dad jokes is also online now, so if you didn’t get a copy of the Kids’ Guide, take a look at expatliving.sg.