He slows down

Men tend to climax faster than women, so that means “simultaneous orgasms usually require women to hurry, and men to hold back”, says Martha Lee, clinical sexologist and founder of Eros Coaching. And he’ll have to help. To maximise your pleasure, get him to stimulate your clitoris. “When you’re both ready, intensify the stimulation to trigger orgasm.” Accountant Lizzie*, 25, says this tip works for her – although she usually attributes a simultaneous orgasm to serendipity rather than serious planning. #Tip 2