Got a relationship problem? Jason Godfrey, our man about town, is here to help.
I’ve realised that my fiance is following loads of #sexygirls Instagram accounts, which I find unacceptable. I caught him checking them out on his phone and it makes me feel insecure.
If this freaks you out, you’d better not check out what he’s browsing on the Internet when you’re not around. Hint: It rhymes with corn and starts with a “p”. This is a tough one.
Sexy girls on Instagram are the new bikini calendars. There’s nothing “wrong” with it. It’s not porn.
But then… it sort of is, and it’s clearly not nice if your guy is perving on other girls.
By the way, perving on the opposite sex is something guys have been doing since time immemorial, and they’ll continue to do so. Share your feelings with your man and tell him that you understand he has to “perv out”, but maybe he could be a little more discreet about it.
Otherwise, you can start following #shirtlessguys on Instagram, and see how that makes him feel.
My boyfriend is loving and caring, but he’s kinda boring. I miss the exciting times with my ex. Do you think this current relationship is for the long haul?
The grass is always greener when you’re running naked with your ex – that’s a famous Greek saying. Or maybe I just made it up.
It’s easy to be bored by the normalcy of it all when you’re in a relationship. But normalcy is great. Normalcy is normal.
In any relationship it’s tempting to blow it all up and get back with the exciting ex, or the exciting guy from work, or even the moderately exciting food delivery guy, but that’s a cop-out.
Making a relationship work means finding a way to be happy after all the bells and whistles of the new guy have faded, and you’re left with nights of Netflix and passing out on the couch.
So think it through. If your malaise has something to do with your current guy, try to remember this: Every relationship ends up with the two of you on the couch watching Netflix.