Cancer victim’s uncle goes to court for burial permission

His granny did not want to look after him after he fell ill and she seldom, if ever, saw him

THE uncle of a 14-year-old who recently died after a long time suffering with cancer, could bury the teenager at the weekend with the help of the court.

On the eve of the burial, the uncle, Fifora Early More of Benoni, turned to the Gauteng High Court, Pretoria, in an urgent bid to be allowed to make funeral arrangements for the teenager.

The uncle was the foster parent of Moeketsi Ndumo as both the boy’s parents have died.

His grandmother did not want to look after him after he fell ill and she seldom, if ever, saw him.

She also withheld his birth certificate from the uncle, which resulted in the boy not being able to attend school last year.

She was also the reason he could not visit the US to meet the son of former senator Ted Kennedy, who suffered from the same cancer as the teenager, the court was told.

More said in court papers that after hearing of the boy’s death, the grandmother and other family members suddenly wanted to give him a burial.

But he said he owed it to his nephew, as his legal guardian, to give him a peaceful and befitting send-off.

The court granted the uncle the order and interdicted the granny, Ivy Gumbi, and other family members from interfering with arrangements.

More said the boy at first went to live with his grandmother after his parents had died.

In September 2015, he was diagnosed with osteosarcoma, a form of cancer.

The granny asked the uncle to take care of the boy and Ndumo went to stay with him.

The court appointed the uncle as the teenager’s foster parent.

Ndumo’s leg was amputated in January last year in an effort to prevent the cancer from spreading.

He also received chemotherapy and in an effort to get him mentally active, the uncle tried to enrol him in a private school.

This fell through after the granny refused to provide the uncle with the birth certificate and last year went by without him attending school.

The boy had to be treated in a State hospital, as the granny took him off her medical aid.

No other medical aid would accept him at such short notice.

Doctors could not do anything for the boy and he eventually landed up in a hospice.

His devoted uncle slept next to his bed every weekend.

On May 6 this year, the uncle was on his way to the boy for his weekend stay, but had to turn back to attend to something else.

Ndumo died the following day.

“If I had not turned back, I would have been there when he passed away,” the uncle said.

He told the court that after the child fell ill, he desperately tried to contact the granny to come and see the boy. She simply did not answer the calls.

He feared that the family would interfere with his funeral arrangements, which prompted him to turn to court.

The uncle said as the legal guardian, he was entitled to make the arrangements.