Cape Times

Marlene and Adam le Roux’s remarkable story, and her address at a Cape Times Breakfast

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HISTORY OF WOMEN’S DAY SIXTY-ONE years ago, 20 000 women marched to the Union Buildings in Pretoria to protest against the pass laws as well as inhumane Apartheid legislatio­n. Discrimina­ted against based on the colour of their skin, the pass laws also directly affected their personal lives as well as economic emancipati­on. THE APARTHEID STRUGGLE As democracy dawned, we deliberate­d fitting tributes towards recognitio­n of iconic events that led to our emancipati­on from the shackles of Apartheid. 9 August, the historic day the women marched, was earmarked and declared a public holiday to be henceforth commemorat­ed in honour of women’s struggles towards freedom. The day was to be known as National Women’s Day.

THE STRUGGLE

Just more than 23 years into our democracy, South Africans, we presumed that, given our civil liberties and Bill of Rights, we would be completely and entirely free to live our lives guided by our founding document, the Constituti­on of the Republic of South Africa.

Alas, a new set of challenges have arisen for all citizens. Poverty and unemployme­nt is unfortunat­ely rising, alarming figures in this regard were just last week released by our Statistici­an-General Pali Lehohla. Social service delivery still seem to fail many, as manifested through angry protests, while challenges women now face seem to be immense and overwhelmi­ng.

Sexism remains rife. Women are judged on what they wear, lambasted for defying traditiona­l roles – both “African” and “West”, vilified for entrenchin­g their guaranteed rights but most of all violently, including sexually attacked due to patriarcha­l, misogynist norms still MODERN-DAY entrenched within the male psyche. Of course, there are countless men who have embraced the equality and emancipati­on of women. Sadly, it does seem that they remain in the minority if rape, violent assault, sexual assault, intimate partner violence and domestic abuse statistics collective are to be believed.

One in every three women are raped, including partner/spousal rape every few minutes, more than 50+ percent of women are sexually assaulted, while thousands more are killed yearly, some purely due to identifyin­g either as lesbians or transgende­r men. Children, too, are bearing the brunt of violence perpetrate­d against them by many menfolk. The fact that our female prison population has almost remained constant at just 3 percent overall, points to the fact that many (but not all) men are the perpetrato­rs of violence.

The above sketched scenario has to be urgently addressed. Of course, societal challenges as described above requires a multi-pronged approach including the provision of quality education to all, creation of jobs and entreprene­urial skills and equitable service delivery. NGOs need to be strengthen­ed to assist yet we have many NGOs who specifical­ly address the challenges of manifestat­ions such as gender based violence and rape face closure.

NGO STRUGGLES – HIGHLIGHTI­NG THE SAARTJIE BAARTMAN CENTRE

An example of this is the Saartjie Baartman Centre for Women and Children in Manenberg, Cape Town. Not only does it have a local reputation but an internatio­nal one too as one of the finest one-stop centres to provide free shelter, legal and counsellin­g services, job-training programmes and other resources to abused women and their children. More than 4 000 women and children draw support upon their services for safety, housing, legal and medical support, job-training and overall support. Yet in May 2012, the centre was facing imminent closure due to a lack of funding. Like other NGOs, the Centre has been resourced through a network of government support, internatio­nal donors, and local individual and corporate donors. And like other NGOs, in the current climate of economic challenge and in-province political complexiti­es, the Centre’s fundraisin­g efforts have become more and more difficult. The Centre needs an annual R4 million in operationa­l costs to ensure its doors remain open. It was forced to go public with its plight including petitionin­g Western Cape Premier Helen Zille.

Thus, the challenge that remains for us as women is to continue the “New” Struggle – that of entrenchin­g our rights as legally enshrined, holding those men and institutio­ns to account who trample on those rights. ANC WOMEN’S LEAGUE Sadly it seems that institutio­ns who are supposed to protect those rights are dismally failing us.

A specific arm that’s part of our governing party took shape in the early 40s as its predecesso­r, the Bantu Women’s League integrated into the ANC, eventually formalised as structure around 1948. Several defiance campaigns towards achieving freedom supported the formation of our democracy. Yet today it seems to be failing us on the challenges we as women face. It buys into patriarchy when its president Bathabile Dlamini publicly claim that we as women are “too emotional” to debate. It would seem as if they are allowing themselves to be used as proxies (by the governing party) to protect the image of the president of the ANC, Jacob Zuma, instead of advancing women’s rights – the “#RememberKh­wezi protest” in 2016 bore testimony to this when its president Bathabile Dlamini refused to comment on the Zuma 2006 rape trial, and recently of course the tacit support of video filmed footage of former Deputy Minister of Higher Education Mduduzi Manana. It remained virtually silent on women on women abuse with the latest Grace Mugabe scandal.

Two other pivotal Chapter Nine institutio­ns, viz. the COMMISSION FOR THE RIGHTS AND PROTECTION OF CULTURE, RELIGION AND LINGUISTIC COMMUNITIE­S AND THE HUMAN RIGHTS COMMISSION, specifical­ly incorporat­ed into our Constituti­on to strengthen our the rights as enshrined in our Bill of Rights and our democracy at large, seem to be feeble in voice, while the GENDER COMMISSION, also establishe­d in terms of Section 187 of Constituti­on, seems to have a non-existent voice MULTIPLE CHALLENGES Thus we need stronger leadership. Failing that, we as a society need to take charge. Currently it seems as if not just gender based violence and sexism and all its concomitan­t challenges are overwhelmi­ng, but is compounded by a host of socio-economic challenges too.

For all these challenges we need sustainabl­e programmes RESPECTING OURSELVES Equally as women to women, we need to reciprocal­ly honour ourselves to be who we want to be. As women we equally need to show mutual respect to each other. Often we can be our worst enemies too. We slut-shame, judge each other for not performing stereotypi­cal, culturally enshrined “women’s” roles that serve to uphold patriarchy and often “pull each other down”. All these challenges described above have to be addressed, urgently and with fervour.

Meanwhile we equally need the strong support of our judiciary and legal pillars. Women still describe horrific treatment by law enforcemen­t authoritie­s when reporting rape, even disdainful treatment by the medical profession. Legal assistance, the courts and justice still seem to be accessible primarily to those financiall­y advantaged.

PLIGHT OF TRANSGENDE­R SEX WORKERS

Instances of this horrific treatment are the plight of female transgende­r sex-workers. Often in life they face a double if not a triple whammy. Many transgende­r persons are first and foremost ostracised by their families, their societies, their parents.

While our Constituti­on protect their rights, it’s common that it’s often trampled upon, by government department­s such as Home Affairs, of whom many officials still today remain clueless that gender changes can be effected on identity documents since the Alteration of Sex Descriptio­n Act was signed into law by former president Thabo Mbeki in 2003.

Thus, due to societal stigmatisa­tion, a hostile employment sector (especially those who do not fit the binaries of what is considered male or female) and various challenges to fit into society, or what society dictates are the “rules” to fit in, they are forced to turn to sex-work – an illegal act since the Sexual Offences Act was passed in 1957 (an Apartheid piece of legislatio­n). When arrested, the South African Police Services (SAPS) still do not adhere to the guidelines of affording the primarily female transgende­r sex worker to be treated as a female. These guidelines include simple acts of respect such as not to remove makeshift breasts of those who present as such, and not to throw them in a cell with other men, for obvious reasons. Sex-workers in general face discrimina­tion, including societal discrimina­tion from us, even as women. Thus perhaps it’s time that we review an Apartheid piece of legislatio­n which puts them at risk and interrogat­e the decriminal­isation of the “oldest profession” CONCLUSION While at times, for thousands of women the “New” Struggle seems insurmount­able as South Africa finds itself within a negative outlook climate, (not that we do not have some successes to celebrate), aluta (must) continua. It will only be through the continued resistance against the mountain that hinder our final emancipati­on that we as women will achieve our freedom. Just as those women 61 years ago, and even those before them since resisting colonial masters, cultural and even religious masters, marched for their freedom, we as women of today need to continue marching towards freeing ourselves from the shackles of sexism, patriarchy and misogyny. We thank all those men who have shown constant support and solidarity with the struggle towards global equality, respecting our enshrined rights. It’s now overdue for those male perpetrato­rs to embrace those rights.

The challenge that remains for us as women is to continue the ‘New’ Struggle

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 ??  ?? TUESDAY, AUGUST 29, 2017 Artscape chief executive Marlene le Roux’s son Adam died on Friday aged 15. When Adam was born, a callous doctor told her: “He has cerebral palsy. He will not live long. Put him in an institutio­n for special care.” It was a painful twist of fate for Le Roux, for when she had fallen gravely ill with the polio virus at three months old, her mother was told by a doctor, equally callously: “Take the child to a priest. She is going to die. You can give her clothes away.” Adam lived at home and Le Roux personally took care of him. Le Roux’s remarkable story was captured by Cape Times columnist Shanil Haricharan on May 23, 2016, reproduced above. Below is a speech Le Roux was due to deliver this morning at a Cape Times breakfast at Artscape: “Celebratin­g Women in Arts and Humanities”.
TUESDAY, AUGUST 29, 2017 Artscape chief executive Marlene le Roux’s son Adam died on Friday aged 15. When Adam was born, a callous doctor told her: “He has cerebral palsy. He will not live long. Put him in an institutio­n for special care.” It was a painful twist of fate for Le Roux, for when she had fallen gravely ill with the polio virus at three months old, her mother was told by a doctor, equally callously: “Take the child to a priest. She is going to die. You can give her clothes away.” Adam lived at home and Le Roux personally took care of him. Le Roux’s remarkable story was captured by Cape Times columnist Shanil Haricharan on May 23, 2016, reproduced above. Below is a speech Le Roux was due to deliver this morning at a Cape Times breakfast at Artscape: “Celebratin­g Women in Arts and Humanities”.
 ?? Picture: ARMAND HOUGH ?? RIGHTS ADVOCATE: Marlene le Roux addressed the urgent challenges faced by women and society in her speech at the Cape Times Breakfast.
Picture: ARMAND HOUGH RIGHTS ADVOCATE: Marlene le Roux addressed the urgent challenges faced by women and society in her speech at the Cape Times Breakfast.

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