Activist joins elite list
A TSHWANE woman who was rejected by her family for being HIV-positive has been included in the 25 Women Changing the World list by American weekly magazine People.
Irene Nkosi, 34, from Dark City near Bronkhorstspruit, was the only African woman honoured this year.
Nkosi said no words could describe how she felt when she saw the article on Thursday.
“To this moment I have goosebumps. I am excited, overwhelmed and feel special,” the HIV/Aids activist and educator said.
The annual list honours women worldwide who work towards the good of their communities.
This year it includes Hollywood stars Gal Godot as well as pop star Pink and renowned researcher Jane Goodall.
Nkosi said she was thankful for the grooming she received from the Mothers2mothers Foundation, which helped build her self-esteem.
She suspected the honour had everything to do with the interviews she did in London last year.
“Mothers2mothers had organised an interview for me with different media, and the magazine was among them,” she said.
Nkosi did not have an easy childhood; not only was she neglected and emotionally abused as a child, but she was also raped at the age of 16. She dropped out of school after she became a single mother.
Nkosi said that when her daughter Lindokuhle was six, she fell pregnant again and found out that she was HIV-positive.
“When the nurse told me I was HIV-positive, I wanted to commit suicide.
“After I told my family, they started to treat me like a dog,” she said.
“I built a ‘doghouse’ outside the main house for me so that I did not infect anyone.”
On another visit to the clinic, the nurse told her that Mothers2mothers was looking for HIV-positive women to help at the foundation.
“When I first went there I thought they had a cure for me, but that was not the case.
“But surprisingly I was happy to see that I was not alone; there were others just like me.
“I gave birth to an HIVnegative baby girl, Mbali, but unfortunately she died at eight months at the crèche.
“I disclosed my status at the crèche and that my daughter was HIV-negative, but she was left to suffocate in a blanket,” she said.
“But I forgave everyone because they did not know better.
“I made it my duty to educate everyone.
“I do not blame my family for what they did to me because I also thought this was a killer disease at the time.
Irene has since had another child, a four-year-old girl, Nothando.