Daily Dispatch

Lerato reflects on strained relationsh­ip with dad

- By CHRIZELDA KEKANA —DDC

LERATO Kganyago has opened up about a grudge she had against her father that strained their relationsh­ip, and how in letting go of the grudge she’s found healing for her heart and turned a new page in their relationsh­ip.

“The three days I was in hospital after I lost my baby‚ I kept staring at the door at the hospital‚ hoping he would walk in … he didn’t! We didn’t speak for months after that. I avoided going home because I was so angry at him … he ditched me again when I needed him the most.”

The presenter took to Twitter to share the story‚ hoping that her testimony would make people understand that celebritie­s also go through trying times, but everyone could make the choice to pursue healthy relationsh­ips.

She said her relationsh­ip with her father was never quite the same after that painful experience, and it was only recently that she realised the toll it took on her.

“I held a grudge again for so long … until the one time he called me after so many months and he said ‘I’m listening to 702; they’re talking about women’s infertilit­y’. I broke into tears because at that moment I realised he cared‚ but he didn’t know how to show me he did‚” she wrote.

She advised people to love unconditio­nally and forgive those that wrong them for the sake of inner peace.

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