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HOW TO HAVE GREAT CONVERSATI­ONS

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Own any social situation you walk into. Here’s how to… ... seem super

smart: Subtle eye contact helps when you’re networking, Look at the spot between the eyebrows, to avoid eyeballing someone. Discuss current events, taking comfortabl­e pauses and asking questions. … fix a name stuffup: Oops, you called her the wrong name. While your instincts are telling you to bail

and rock in the foetal position, you’ll come off better if you correct yourself and apologise. … leave a boring

conversati­on: You’ve heard about his cat, cousin’s friend’s wedding and CrossFit obsession. Interrupt the conversati­on to repeat something he’s said with a positive spin like: ‘Sounds like that tax convention was fun.’ That shows you’ve been listening, and when you follow up with a quick exit, you won’t seem rude.

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