BE IN CHARGE

“Do you ever feel bad about how you talk about men to other women? If we talk about our sex lives with our friends, we’re disloyal, but it’s totally OK for you to talk in detail to your friends. What’s that about?” – Will, 29 – Sam, 27

“Do you actually enjoy giving blow jobs? I’ve heard mixed opinions from my female friends, and I don’t know how to ask my girlfriend.”

– Al, 26 “Is it a turn-off if a man has slept with lots of women? Because, honestly, I’d find it intimidating if a woman had a huge number.” – Tom, 28 – Jeff, 30

What it is White sprays grown by the elder tree, elderflower has a lemony scent and is often cooked down into cordials, dried to be brewed in tea or used to flavour food. Its health benefits Packed with antioxidants and vitamin C, the flower’s healing and antiseptic properties mean that it has been used in traditional medicine around the world for many years. Elderflower boosts the immune system, so it’s commonly used to treat colds and flu, sinus and chest infections. It’s a natural laxative, helping relieve constipation, and can also protect against cancers and heart diseases, as well as help regulate blood glucose levels in diabetics. How to use it Boil just the flowers (the leaves, sticks and roots are toxic) into a tea and use as a mouthwash. Since elderflower is an antiinflammatory, soak a muslin cloth in the tea and apply to your sore joints or swollen areas.