“I gave up casual sex”

Glamour (South Africa) - - You You You -

“I’m a restau­rant bar­tender, and I slept with a pretty, young de­liv­ery boy. The first time we had sex, I was fin­ish­ing my pe­riod, and he didn’t skip a beat. I thought, amaz­ing – he has a con­stant erec­tion and ac­cepts the fe­male body! So I went down on him en­thu­si­as­ti­cally.

The next time, he asked me to do it again. I said, ‘I won’t go down on you if you won’t go down on me.’ I cringed while wait­ing for the words to land. His re­ply: ‘I don’t re­ally do that.’ For a mo­ment I fan­ta­sised about train­ing him to give the best cun­nilin­gus the world’s ever re­ceived! But it takes valu­able en­ergy to try to change a man. And that vi­o­lates my car­di­nal rule: never waste en­ergy on a guy. I’m happy I spoke up, be­cause I’m done talk­ing to him. Next!” – Na­dia, 30

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