Dance strengthened father and son bond
MOST fathers and sons bond over sport and activities like fishing but for Kiresh Bajinbali, of Verulam, and his dad, they bonded over nagara. At 13, Kiresh is the youngest performer at Flash Entertainers.
He started dancing nagara part-time at the age of eight and in 2015 joined the group full-time.
The Grade 8 pupil, who attends Temple Valley Secondary School, said his love for performing ran in his blood.
“My dad, Manesh, performed with the group 23 years ago and my older brother, Karshan, 21, and I followed in his footsteps,” said Kiresh.
The brothers said their biggest supporters are their dad, mom, Roma, and sister Priya.
“They always encourage us and cheer us on at events. Our mom and sister even sew our outfits when they get a chance.”
Roma said they used sari material to make the skirts and blouses. “My boys are fashionable and like the shiny material and fancy blouses, so we try and find unique patterns,” said Roma.
She added that her sons took their performances seriously and refrained from eating meat ahead of an event.
“Their manager is strict but he teaches them the right things. They would never eat meat and the older guys would not drink alcohol before an event.
“It’s a good discipline. It teaches them to respect other people’s homes and their prayers.”
Roma said there are misconceptions that nagara dancers are homosexual.
“None of the men in this group are gay. Almost all of them are married with children.
“People do not understand the significance behind their performances and I think we need to educate them more. Then only will they respect these men for what they do.”
When her sons followed in their dad’s footsteps, Roma said she did not attempt to dissuade them.
“Karshan was dancing already and we were at a function when Sanjoo (the group’s manager) told Kiresh to dance.
“Kiresh looked at me and I told him to go ahead if he wanted. We support our boys.”
Kiresh, the silent type, said he took on a new persona when on stage.
“When I hear the music and feel the vibration, I have this newfound confidence.”
Although he is undecided on what career path to pursue after he matriculates, Kiresh was adamant he had no intention of quitting the group.
“This passion to perform is in my blood and I don’t see myself quitting any time soon. I enjoy it and respect the history of it and the team.”
The brothers usually practise by watching movies but initially learnt the moves from their dad.
Kiresh added that he was not bothered by the reactions of others when they learnt he was a nagara dancer and was grateful to have his brother at his side.
“We are close and we support each other. To have him guiding me is great.
“It’s also encouraging that we have the ability to not allow people’s ideas or opinions to affect us.”
Karshan, who has been with the group since 2007, added: “It’s in my blood to perform and worship the goddess.”