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Dating dilemmas

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WOMEN on dating apps like Tinder are more often looking for confirmati­on of being attractive, whereas most men desire casual sex and shortterm relationsh­ips, a study has found.

“Women use dating apps to feel better about themselves more than men do,” said Mons Bendixen, Associate Professor at the Norwegian University of Science and Technology (NTNU).

Being perceived as a potential partner by other users is regarded as positive, he said.

On the other hand, “men tend to report a desire for casual sex and short-term relationsh­ips as a reason for using dating apps”, said lead author Ernst Olav Botnen, a clinical psychologi­st at the varsity.

But, “men who use these apps also seek long-term partners, but to a lesser extent than short-term partners”, he added.

Further, women tend to spend more time on dating apps like Tinder than men do. This is because women take longer to consider each candidate before moving on.

Conversely, men pursue more candidates in less time and make more swift decisions about whether a candidate is someone they want to meet up with or not.

They are also more likely to initiate contact than women are, the researcher­s said, in a paper published in the journal Personalit­y and Individual Difference­s.

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