Plan, prepare to ease costs
While starting a family is one of the most joyous times in any couple’s life, one must also be mindful of the financial costs that come with parenthood. CHARLENE SOMDUTH speaks to a parent about how much is spent a month on their children, while blogger
PLANNING and preparation were key in helping a Pietermaritzburg couple ease the financial burden of having their first baby.
Now after 17 months of being parents Vashen Moodley, 36, a production manager, and Kubashnie, 34, a medical rep, are expecting their second child in March.
The couple married in November 2014, and in October the following year Kubashnie gave birth to the couple’s daughter, Skylar.
“We love children. I have three nieces who my husband and I would spoil. Before we even got married we knew we wanted to have children immediately after we tied the knot.”
She said in January 2015 she fell pregnant and they were very excited.
“We were so happy, and from that moment we couldn’t wait to meet our baby. Our joy soon turned to concern because we realised that we were going to need lots of things for our new arrival.”
She said they did not panic but decided to instead draw up a budget and start saving for what they needed.
“Things like the car seat, camp cot, bath station and prams are some of the most expensive yet essential items needed. We shopped around and looked at prices. Eventually we went to the baby expo, where we got everything for R11 000.”
She said every month was a new challenge but they had put together a budget to help them.
“Being a young couple you are a bit carefree about your money, but when you have a child or children things change. For Skylar, every three months she needs new clothing, and as a first-time mum price was no obstacle, and this was my downfall.”
Kubashnie said she spent recklessly on clothing.
“I would buy dresses or T-shirts for like R180 when I could get similar stuff for a fraction of the price.”
She said her second pregnancy was unplanned, but she had learned so much.
“I am using things that I bought for Skylar, and when it comes to clothing I will not be buying expensive things.”
She said for Skylar alone she needed at least R2 000, which included her nappies, wipes, food and clothing.
“I also have a nanny, who, together with a relative, takes care of my daughter. With our second baby on the way we are trying hard to cut down on costs.”