Nepal’s first transgender model struts her stuff
MUMBAI – A Nepali who will become the first transgender model to walk the runway at an Indian fashion show hopes to inspire other victims of gender identity discrimination across conservative South Asia.
Anjali Lama, who was born a man in rural Nepal, was ostracised by members of her own family after telling them 12 years ago that she wanted to live as a woman.
She overcame abuse and prejudice to become the Himalayan country’s first transgender model and is now preparing to strut the catwalk at Lakme Fashion Week in Mumbai, India’s premier fashion show, next month.
“Growing up in Nepal as a transgender was extremely difficult,” Lama, 32, said ahead of the fashion extravaganza, which runs from Wednesday to Sunday.
“In South Asian countries people still aren’t that accepting, they treat it like an illness. The public looks at you differently and treats you in a different manner. One has to stay strong and reach out for their dreams,” she added.
Lama was born Nabin Waiba to a family of poor farmers in remote Nuwakot in mountainous Nepal. But she always knew that she had been born in the wrong body and in 2005 took the decision to dress as a woman for the first time.
“I knew I couldn’t feel like another person living in someone else’s body. Hence, I was ready to face the cruel words that people threw at me,” said the model.
“Most of the people, including my own brothers, weren’t ready to accept me for who I was. My mother and sisters were the only ones who supported me throughout.”
Lama found some acceptance in Kathmandu, where she moved to study, and later became an activist for an LGBT rights group called Blue Diamond Society.
She underwent partial sex reassignment surgery in 2009 and her interest in modelling was piqued the following year when she was pictured on the front cover of a magazine featuring an article about transgender people.
It spurred her to pursue a career in modelling full-time. She enrolled in classes, but initially found work hard to come by.
“I was getting rejected because of my identity and that was extremely disheartening,” said Lama, who has established herself as a successful model.
In 2014 she featured in a
documentary titled Anjali: Living Inside Someone Else’s
Skin in which she said she hoped to become completely female one day – an operation that is financially out of reach for most Nepalis.
Her recent success has come as Nepal has increased its recognition of transgender people. In 2015 the country, which allows citizens to choose their sex, started issuing third gender category passports for those who identify themselves as transgender.
Manisha Dhakal, one of the founders of the Blue Diamond Society, said Nepal’s government needed to do more to provide equal opportunities in education and employment for transgender people.
“To get the acceptance in society we need to be economically empowered,” said Dhakal.