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Is it written in the stars that I should marry my partner?

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I’VE dated a guy for four years. Everything seems fine with him and his family, but I’m still confused about our relationsh­ip.

Can you help me make sense of the confused state I’m in. Is he the right guy for me? Are we a match in astrologic­al terms?

If we should marry, please suggest appropriat­e dates. VG HINDU tradition says marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman. Before marriage, both are considered incomplete.

Both are assigned certain responsibi­lities to make a marriage succeed. That’s why many families compare the horoscopes of the prospectiv­e brides and grooms to determine whether they will have a blissful marriage.

In astrology, marital compatibil­ity is based on eight parameters (gunas):

1 Varna refers to ego developmen­t. It carries one mark.

2 Vashya refers to the intensity of mutual attraction. It carries

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two marks.

3 Tara (three marks) to financial status.

4 Yoni (four marks) relates to chemistry in the bedroom.

5 Maitri (five marks) compares goals in life, intelligen­ce and spirituali­ty.

6 Gana (six marks) evaluates temperamen­t.

7 Bhakut (seven marks ) reflects on family welfare.

8 Nadi (eight marks) refers to health.

The eight parameters total 36 marks. When the two horoscopes are compared, a minimum of 18 is necessary to confirm a match. A higher score improves your chances of a better life.

A score of 18-20 marks is considered an average match, 21-23 a good match, 24-28 a very good match, and above 28 an excellent match, which is rare.

To do a compatibil­ity test in accordance with Vedic astrology, the exact time of birth, date and place of birth are needed.

If the time of birth is not precise, the compatibil­ity test results may not be accurate. However, according to the birth details you gave me, I’m happy to say you and your partner are compatible.

According to the methodolog­y we used, you and your partner scored a healthy 25.5 points.

In more than 90% of cases, this method of horoscope matching is of great help in finding a suitable partner.

However, it is recommende­d that a couple consider all possible ways to test their compatibil­ity before marriage.

I hope this test will help you decide whether your boyfriend is the one for you. According to my calculatio­ns, he is.

There are many suitable dates for you to marry your partner this year.

Once you have decided you want to marry, call my office so we can help you choose the most appropriat­e date for the wedding.

Readers can send their name and surname, religion, date, place and time of birth and the advice they require to: Mahesh Bang, Tribune Herald, PO Box 47549, Greyville, 4023, or e-mail tribuneher­ald@inl.co.za or call him at: 083 659 2277 or 031 401 8888

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