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When marrying late, there are hurdles that need to be removed

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I AM a 31-year-old woman who is yet to marry. Profession­ally, I am doing well. What does my future hold, especially in the area of marriage? QNV

ACCORDING to Vedic astrology, a late marriage is written in your destiny. Do the following to remove hurdles that might prevent you from getting married:

When a woman is experienci­ng delays in finding a suitable life partner, she should fast for 16 consecutiv­e Mondays and offer sacred water at a Shiva Temple.

She should tie a string knot between the Lord Shiva and Parvati Maa deities and pray for an early marriage.

This is a simple, effective and very successful remedy.

Worshippin­g Lord Shiva daily can help you find a good husband.

It is advisable that you fast on Mondays and chant “Om Namah Shivaya” daily for 21 minutes.

Offer spinach (palak) to cows at least three times a year.

Use a pinch of haldi (turmeric) in your bath water. Do this daily for 108 days. Thereafter, perform this ritual every Thursday.

Read verses related to the marriage of Shiva and Parvati in

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the Balkand of Ramcharit Manas every day.

If you know of a woman who is about to tie the knot, you should attend her mehndi ceremony and apply some of the mixture immediatel­y after the bride-to-be has applied it to her hands.

You should not use black clothing, curtains and sheets in your bedroom.

You should not sleep in the north-west part of your home. The energy in this area, according to Vastu, will prevent you from marrying early.

At the least, avoid sleeping in the southern part of the house.

Display love bird images or models in the south-west part of your bedroom.

According to Vedic astrology, when Mars is in the first, fourth, seventh, eighth or 12th house in a person’s birth chart, the horoscope is considered to have a “Manglik Dosha” presence.

The child is then considered to be “Manglik” in astrologic­al terms. This presence of Mars in these houses generally causes delays in marriage or sometimes stress in the first year of marriage.

The Manglik Dosha effect is nullified after the age of 28 in up to 90% of cases.

But in your case you are “double manglik”, which means you have a double dose of “mangal dosha”. That explains why you have surpassed the age of 28 and are still not married.

Your time for marrying will be between 2020 and 2022.

So be optimistic. I advise that you ask friends and family to help with the search for a suitable life partner. Also consider using social media to improve your chances of finding Mr Right.

Your planets are powerful profession­ally. So you are very successful.

Also wear your lucky gem stones to improve your chances when the window of opportunit­y to marry comes around in 2020.

You’ve never had a longterm relationsh­ip because of the blockages in your path of love. That may cause you to become negative, to think and say that you don’t want to marry.

Try your best to maintain a positive attitude in this regard. It will definitely benefit you in the long term. Some people get married early and others later, in accordance with their destiny.

Another obstacle preventing you from marrying is your stubborn nature.

Readers can send their name and surname, religion, date, place and time of birth and the advice they require to: Mahesh Bang, Tribune Herald, PO Box 47549, Greyville, 4023, or e-mail tribuneher­ald@inl.co.za or call him at: 083 659 2277 or 031 401 8888

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