Sunday World (South Africa)

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- STAFF REPORTER

VALENTINE S DAY has come and gone, but it doesn’t mean the romance should too.

Couples often wonder how they can keep the flames burning beyond the day most people deem a cliché and a mega commercial hype.

Treating your significan­t other to dinner, buying flowers and chocolates or going on a picnic should be things that couples do throughout the year.

In a Durex survey it was reported that 43% of the participan­ts were keen to break free from the boredom and to do things differentl­y with their lovers. A further 30% wanted more spontaneit­y in their relationsh­ip and 28% said they craved more passion.

Here are some things you could do to revive intimacy in your relationsh­ip.

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Invest in a Play Vibrations cock ring and start losing count of the number of times you both climaxed together. This soft and stretchy ring is designed to be comfortabl­y worn at the base of the penis, and can fit over a condom or directly onto the skin.

Pop it on when the male is erect. Position the vibrating motor on the top of his shaft to stimulate her clitoris during penetratio­n, increasing her chances of orgasm, or swing it round so that it rests against his prostrate to add an extra mind-blowing buzz during intercours­e.

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Showing love is not about spending money but more about spending time connecting with your partner. Why not slow the pace down and dedicate time to practising Pompoir

This is a sexual technique whereby the woman is in a missionary position and you stay as still as possible the woman repeatedly stimulates the man by rhythmical­ly clenching and unclenchin­g her pelvic floor muscles.

Consider buying white roses instead of red ones, and accompanyi­ng them with a magic potion” (in reality, red food colouring that you’ve decanted into a pretty bottle) to be added to a vase of water. Over the following days, the flowers will take up the colour and change from white to pink. Simple and affordable, yet memorable and quirky.

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Most couples like to watch a sexy movie together. So why not try playing the film’s soundtrack in the bedroom for the cinematic mood as part of your foreplay. A massage using stimulatin­g oils works wonders.

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