Talk of the Town

Pleading for girl child rights

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IT HAS come to my attention that there is a significan­t increase in cases of abuse of the girl child.

Abuse of the girl child is like a thorn piercing my heart. With great concern and agony, I pen this letter as a course of action to lobby for ways to mitigate and alleviate the current prevailing situation of the vulnerable girl child.

With a heart of empathy I hereby speak for the voiceless. The wellbeing of the girl child is now in shambles and I call for the protection of the rights of the girl child which are now facing antagonist­ic forces.

If William Wilberforc­e could successful­ly advocate for the abolishmen­t of the slave trade, it is also feasible for us to advocate for the rights of the girl child. He was a white man who lobbied for the relief of the black man. As man, you too can lobby for the rights of the girl child. You have an obligation to conserve the ethical values and the welfare of the girl child.

Some of our negative cultural practices have influence in the violation of the rights of the girl child. When the family is haunted by avenging spirits, the girl child is put in spotlight, why not the boy child or the wrongdoers?

Pledging the girl child for food in the time of need is an unethical practice. It is the primary duty of the breadwinne­r to provide food for the family.

In his quote, Wilberforc­e said “it is the true duty of every man to promote the happiness of his fellow creatures to the utmost of his power”. with reference to the numerous reported cases where the girl child is being sexually abused by the one who is providing her foster care. We must remember that their vulnerabil­ity is not a choice but a predicamen­t beyond their control and imposed upon them by our very own community.

The abuse of the girl child has both physical and psychologi­cal effects, which impair their dignity and scars them for life.

Labelling and discrimina­tion can lead to loss of confidence and can result in school dropouts and suicides.

The use of girl children in marriage pledges and to quench the marital strays of rogue adults is an abominatio­n. Why must these innocent souls be sacrificed for the sake of these barbaric acts?

The long arm of the law must surely descend heavily and without mercy upon those found in breach of the sacred rights of the girl child.

The girl child plays a pivotal role in fighting poverty and spearheadi­ng the economy. Once she is abused she becomes incapacita­ted, she feels rejected both at home and in society.

In conclusion, I urge all those victims, in the unfortunat­e event of abuse, to seek medical attention immediatel­y. No cases should be swept under the carpet. The health facilitato­rs must provide continuous counsellin­g to rehabilita­te the victim and ensure resounding societal integratio­n.

You may choose to look the other way but you can never say again that you did not know.

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