The Herald (South Africa)

A ‘bachelor party’ stunt in poor taste

- Nico Henning, Grahamstow­n

ON Saturday morning, as often before, a group of men (young and old) cheered on one of their group as he pranced around between cars at the Cape Road-William Moffett intersecti­on, dressed up in a silly manner in a tutu of sorts with a collection tin in hand.

The peanut gallery was standing on the sidewalk, some clutching liquid refreshmen­ts of unknown type.

They were clearly enjoying the antics of the younger guy, “begging” from car to car.

I assume he was collecting for a bachelor’s party (I refused even to open my window to speak to the collectors/“beggars” to ascertain).

If, however, I’m wrong and he was collecting for a local charity, please accept my apology and don’t read any further.

On the assumption that the proceeds were intended for his bachelor party, the following thoughts crossed my mind:

ý What exactly is funny (to adults, in any case) about a man in a tutu strutting around with a collection tin?

His audience were clearly having a whale of a time.

Maybe the liquid refreshmen­t enhanced the comedic value of his performanc­e disproport­ionately;

ý I refuse to donate even 1c towards a booze-up at a bachelor party. If you really can’t afford to pay for your own entertainm­ent (of that kind), are you ready to take on the financial responsibi­lities of married life?

ý If, on the other hand, the collection was merely part of a (puerile) “rite of passage”, I find it rather insensitiv­e, considerin­g that virtually at every intersecti­on in town, there are homeless and “down-and-out” individual­s, many of whom are in real need of assistance.

Don’t flaunt your superficia­l views of entertainm­ent when there is real hardship around.

Aside from the ethical considerat­ions mentioned, the traffic department should in any case act against this sort of thing, as well as the traders at every intersecti­on peddling their (mostly redundant) wares like generic phone chargers and sun-bleached Blue Bulls flags.

It is dangerous to motorists.

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