Israeli drag queen, Syrian belly dancer seek to soothe grief
For seven years, an Israeli drag queen and Syrian belly dancer had hosted a joint monthly show at Berlin LGBT clubs, celebrating their coexistence in an extravagant party resembling a Middle Eastern wedding.
But when Hamas gunmen carried out a deadly attack on southern Israel in October, triggering an Israeli military offensive in the Gaza Strip, their relationship was tested.
“We spent long days talking. “I was really insecure about where our relationship was going,” the Syrian belly dancer, who uses the stage name The Darvish, said.
The artists also had to agree on the future of their show, Yalla Hafla, which means “Let’s
Party” in Arabic — an approach that no longer seemed appropriate at a time of grief in Berlin’s Arab and Israeli communities.
Out of that grief, their new show, Together, was born.
In Tipsy Bear, a cramped, purple-lit bar in the German capital, the event starts with a medley of Arabic, English and Hebrew songs in which the black-cloaked Israeli drag queen, who uses the name Judy LaDivina, gives melodramatic lip-syncing performances while The Darvish belly-dances in a jangling sequinned skirt.
Less of a wedding party, the music now reflects a more subdued mood.
“It was not an option for us to go on stage in a celebration, but it was very important for us to give space for a dialogue to share our grief,” LaDivina said.
For the second half of the show, the audience is offered scraps of paper for questions, remarks or confessions.
“We had a lot of people come to hug us every show,” The Darvish said, adding that the show had also sparked hateful comments and even death threats.
Caught between protecting artistic freedoms while recognising what many Germans see as a historic responsibility to Israel after the Nazi Holocaust, the show was one of a few events in Germany offering such space to discuss the Middle East conflict, The Darvish said.
“I’m rarely seeing organisations or artists that are not afraid of saying Palestine and Israel in the same sentence,” LaDivina said.