The Independent on Saturday

Great sex in marriage could cause spouse to cheat

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LONDON: Having a great sex life with your spouse is normally seen as a good reason to stay faithful.

However, a husband’s or wife’s prowess could actually make their bedmate more – not less – likely to stray.

This is because those who really enjoy sex in a marriage may then want to seek out liaisons with more partners, according to researcher­s.

They also found that attractive women were slightly more likely to remain faithful than their less attractive peers.

In contrast, a man who was more attractive was more likely to stray.

The findings came in a wide-ranging study at Florida State University examining if it was possible to predict if someone was likely to cheat in a relationsh­ip.

They found that those whose gaze lingered on attractive “alternativ­e” mates were the ones who would be more likely to cheat.

Researcher­s followed 233 newly-wed couples for up to three-and-a-half years, documentin­g intimate details, including marital satisfacti­on, long-term commitment and infidelity.

“Sexual satisfacti­on was surprising­ly positively associated with infidelity,” they wrote. “It may be that people who feel particular­ly positive about sex in general, regardless of how they feel about their relationsh­ips specifical­ly, are more likely to engage in infidelity.”

The authors said satisfacti­on with sex was separate to being happy with the relationsh­ip in general. – Daily Mail

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