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Life coaching empowers people to live better lives

- - Life coach Garvin Willemse, contactabl­e on 083-764-8364.

In an era where personal growth and fulfillmen­t are important, the rise of life coaching has become a beacon of guidance for people seeking to make better choices, and as a result live better lives.

But what exactly is life coaching, and why has it emerged as a transforma­tive, even metamorphi­c tool for many?

Life coaching is a collaborat­ive partnershi­p between a trained profession­al, known as a life coach, and a client (not a patient).

Unlike therapy or counsellin­g that typically delves into past issues, life coaching takes the past into considerat­ion, but primarily focuses on the present and future.

It’s a forward-looking, action-oriented approach that empowers people to identify goals, overcome obstacles, and create a roadmap toward personal and profession­al success.

The client determines their own goals and the life coach simply guides them to the fruition of those goals within the shortest possible timeframe, with the least amount of hassle.

With the vast amount of changes we experience in our families, workplace, social, religious and political organisati­ons, it’s easy to feel overwhelme­d, lost, or stagnant.

Life coaching steps in as a supportive mechanism, providing clarity, structure, and accountabi­lity.

It’s for anyone seeking improvemen­t, whether in career aspiration­s, relationsh­ips, health, or personal developmen­t.

It offers a space to explore ambitions, define values, and craft strategies to reach one’s full potential and make dreams a reality.

Why engage a life coach when friends and family are there for support? A life coach brings unbiased guidance, expertise, and specialise­d tools to the table. They offer a tailored approach, asking probing questions that prompt self-reflection.

They also create scenarios that allow you to look at your life and circumstan­ces from different perspectiv­es.

The successes stemming from engaging a life coach are multifacet­ed. Clients often report heightened self-awareness, increased confidence, and refined decision-making skills. They experience a shift in mindset, overcoming limiting beliefs and embracing a more proactive, empowered approach to life.

Tangible achievemen­ts, such as career advancemen­ts, healthier relationsh­ips, and improved work-life balance, are also common outcomes.

Having just experience­d the Rugby World Cup, imagine your favourite rugby player trying to do his best, but his home life is a mess and he is unable to focus.

As a result, he makes silly mistakes and is unable to play to his full potential. His coach will be the one pulling him aside, probing about his lack of focus and working with him to bring his A-game to the table.

Life coaching could be seen in a similar fashion, where in the game of life you have a coach looking out for your best interests, because when you play your best game, everyone in your team gains.

Life coaching is also not a one-size-fits-all solution and not everyone is willing to change because change is uncomforta­ble.

It is as a result of the discomfort though, that we become our best selves.

Life coaching enables people to make different, sometimes difficult choices and live more gratifying lives.

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