FOUR WOMEN SHARE THEIR THOUGHTS ON DIRTY TALK

THULI MABUYA*, 41, RESEARCH HEAD

“Dirty sex is very necessary in my relationship. It spices up naked time and helps loosen us up. For me, it’s important to talk as dirty as I want. Dirty talk from porn movies is not for everyone. Other people prefer to paint erotic pictures rather than talking like a sailor. The trick is to do it your own way and have fun.”

NOMFUNDO ZONDI, 27, ACCOUNT EXECUTIVE

“I’m in a long-term relationship, which also happens to be long distance. I cling to any and everything that can keep the fires burning and the chemistry electric. Do away with all gender normative noise about talking dirty. It’s not just a fantasy for men! Sex should never be a riddle – tell your partner what you want and watch him rise to the occasion.”

KAMOGELO SESEANE*, 26, PR MANAGER

“I personally feel that dirty talk is an absolute necessity during sex. It feels liberating to just lose yourself in the moment with your partner and say all the things you’d rarely say.”

TSHEPISO MOATSHE*, 35, HOUSEWIFE

“Dirty sex doesn’t always work. I feel you literally need to be in an ecstatic moment for it to work – so when you say it, you mean it. Half the time porn teaches us how to say things to keep the moment going, and I don’t like that. But, with that said, I do believe dirty talk can be genuine.” *Not their real names