Hatred of ‘other’ runs deep

MY deepest and heartfelt condolences to the family of the late “openly lesbian” Noxolo Xakeka, whose life was brutally stolen by bigoted homophobes. This tragic incidence of violence has left me numb and perturbed.

The slaying of Xakeka, who was from the Lwandle informal settlement in Strand, on New Year`s Day is no isolated incident, but part of a trend that is entrenched and deeply-rooted in the black community’s psyche.

Gay and lesbian rights do not exist at all in our communities, where constant taunting and belittlement are the order of the day. I can attest to this.

We live in constant fear of societal prejudice, unwarranted attention, physical assault and extreme hate… simply for being different.

A few weeks ago, I was a victim of hate where I was physically and emotionally assaulted by homophobic thugs from my neighbourhood. I was left emasculated, frustrated and shaken to the core, but not stirred.

Just because I have an accent and my walk is not the same as yours does not give you a right to judge, classify and sexually profile me. It is astounding how many misconceptions exist about gays and lesbians.

I strongly believe public libraries and other information centres should make information about sensitive topics such as homosexuality and bisexuality readily accessible.

If I had a rand for every time I heard someone say homosexuality or bisexuality is unAfrican, I’d be rich.