YOU (South Africa)

I’VE BEEN CHEATED ON – AGAIN!

- This sort of thing happens to many people, both women and men. It often has nothing to do with the person who’s left behind but more with the person who cheated. Perhaps you should consider whether the problem lies with the kind of men you choose to have

I’m 45 and my boyfriend of two years recently told me he’s fallen in love with someone else. My ex-husband cheated on me, which is why we divorced, and for a while I was wary of men.

It took me a long time to start dating after that and I can’t believe I’ve just been left for someone else again! It feels as if my life is just taking the same path again, where I’m left alone and having to endure this terrible loneliness without a partner. Carol, email Unfortunat­ely there are no guarantees in life. Don’t think of yourself as an exception –

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