Elderly and abandoned

Reading 79-year-old Maureen Green’s letter (YOU Say, 30 November), it’s so sad how many children abandon their aged parents. I realise how blessed I am with my four children.

I live happily with my eldest son at the coast and the others contribute to my comfort and luxuries every month. I holiday, rotating my time with each child.

To those who have no time to take care of their parents: shame on you. BLESSED MOM, EMAIL

Dear Maureen Green, I’m sorry you’re suffering so much. I’m sure you don’t mean you expect your children to pay the R500 000 for a hip replacement or R2 000 extra a month to put you on their medical aid (if they’re on one).

At your age they must also be close to retired. Are they wealthy and just withholding this money, or are they also just people battling to keep their heads above water and filled with guilt because they can’t do more for you? LIEZL, EMAIL

To Maureen Green: I have the same problem. The pain is so bad I don’t sleep at night. My daughter hasn’t spoken to me for 26 years. I wish I could meet you. Vasbyt! SYBIL, SMS

I’m deeply sorry to read you’re in so much pain and get no love or compassion from your kids, Mrs Green. It’s absolutely heartbreaking when kids abandon their elderly parents because they get so caught up in their own lives. I’m sure when they were little you gave them your everything, being their mother.

The Bible says, “Honour thy mother and father.” Parents are a gift from God, just as children are. Just because we’re busy with our fast lives doesn’t mean we have to neglect our parents, who taught us to walk and talk.

Let our elderly enjoy their last years on earth. When they are no more, it’s too late for regrets. Hang in there, Mrs Green! You’re loved by me! SYMPATHETIC, EMAIL