SHE’S AFTER MY HUSBAND

Q My husband and I got married two years ago. He’s an airline pilot and loves his job and I would never dream of asking him to do something else. But the problem is there’s an attractive young air hostess who often flies overseas with my husband and I think she’s made it her mission to get him to divorce me and become involved with her.

My husband has told me about how she harasses him but she does it in such a way that he can’t really lodge a complaint against her with his employer. I’m worried that if she carries on using her feminine wiles it will erode my husband’s normal ethical standards and he may give in to her. I trust him and we have a good relationship, but I don’t trust her. What should I do? Leslie, email

A Contrary to popular belief, men usually don’t appreciate being stalked by a woman – even if they’re young and attractive. The fact that your husband has told you about what’s going also implies that he finds the attention from her embarrassing and inappropriate.

Pilots are carefully screened due to the safety implications of their job, so they tend to be committed and take their work seriously. I would imagine your husband is probably highly irritated by this air hostess’ behaviour. Trust him and his love for you.

At the same time, however, going on the offensive will only benefit you. When you’re with your husband, be even sweeter and sexier than you already are. It’s highly unlikely that a married man will embark on an affair if he has a wonderful, happy, fulfilling relationship with his wife.