YOU (South Africa)

WHY ARE MY PARENTS SO DIFFICULT?

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I’m a student in my third year and I wanted to give up my studies and start working as I feel studying is just a waste of time.

I thought my parents would be happy about this because then I’d be off their hands financiall­y, but they said they expected me to complete my studies and that it was the least I could do seeing that they’ve paid for it.

A friend of mine started working recently and he’s earning a good salary so I don’t see how a degree would make my future better. Liam, email To finish what you start is a good principle to live by. Being able to stay the course says a lot about a person’s perseveran­ce, commitment and tenacity.

Having a degree may not count so much when you’re just starting out in a career but believe me it counts when you want to move to middle management in a company.

Having parents who are willing and able to pay for your studies is a privilege many young people in South Africa don’t have and you shouldn’t take this for granted.

The pleasure of having money in your pocket now because you get a job will pale against the pleasure of being able to get a promotion because of hard work with a degree to back you up.

Think also of the pleasure you’ll give your parents when they see you getting your degree – it’ll come from the knowledge that they’ve given you a good foundation in life and this isn’t something to be taken lightly.

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