CAITLYN POOLE
Caitlyn met Uyinene in Grade 1 at Hudson Park Primary School in East London. “We literally met on that first day and we hit it off,” she tells YOU.
“Uyi, where do I even begin? The first day of Grade 1, I had just walked into the classroom, a nervous wreck. I was frightened and just wanted to go home, and as I turned around, in you walked.
“You introduced yourself to me and I did the same. Your name was a bit tricky at first. Uyinini, Unini, Uyinens, Nene. I just couldn’t get the hang of it. Every time I would say it wrong you would just look at me, smiling your infectious smile, and just shake your head.
“Our relationship grew into a sisterhood. You always stood up for me, you always knew how to cheer me up and there wasn’t a day that went by when you didn’t make me smile.
“I remember our week-long sleepovers, getting into trouble for painting our nails, getting told to run around the tennis court because of our constant chatter and laughter, eating gourmet meals at lunchtime, braiding each other’s hair and just being by each other’s side 24/7.
“Uyi, Uyi, you were the most outgoing, loveable fashionista I have ever met. You’ve touched so many lives in just 19 years on this earth and you continue to touch millions more in your absence. You’ve taught me to always stand up for what I believe in and to stay true to myself. You’ve taught me that being a woman is about more than just your physical appearance. It’s how you carry yourself, your behaviour, attitude and outlook on life.
“Thank you for being the person I shared 12 years of my life with. Thank you for being my person. I wish I had one more moment just to tell you how much you truly mean to me.
“One more moment to tell you how much I love and adore you. One more moment just to give you one last hug. One more moment to see that radiant smile – just one last time. One more moment to look into your eyes and tell you how honoured I am that you chose me to be your best friend.
“Your legacy will live on. You were part of a greater plan that none of us realised at the time. We now see why the Lord put you on this earth – to make a difference in our country.
“Losing you is like losing a part of myself. You were my best friend, my sister, my comforter, my everything. You had my back when no one else did. Thank you for your constant support and laughter. You’ll always be a part of me.
“Radical transformation is already happening in South Africa because of you. Your legacy will live on. I love you, Uya, forever and always.”